kizzy27: So advise ... a friend of mine found the bar, I asked him not to come in he took offence bigtime.
I am not involved with this friend other than a friend to have a swim with the odd coffee bitch about stuff.I told him I would feel better if i could just have my lil cs hangout just for me to de-stess anon I like it that way, He took it as I didnt trust him or his integrety ? wtf?I cant stop him comin in I only asked if he wouldnt...Am I wrong , this friend doesnt know me that well we have only been friends for a few months , I have nothing to hide but i do tell you all more than I tell him .
He has spat the dummy big time .
ok
Lay it on me .
Kizzy
ummmmmmm.. tricky!!!

but if he a friend maybe once he has calmed down and not taken it so personally he will understand what you meant