Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?

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Ecoprincess Sligo/New Zealand, Sligo Ireland
Rodles: there is that L word again lol

Most people that I speak with who have been together for multilple decades talk more about deep frinedship and sharing common enjoyment through participating together in activities. Be it through doing things, watching things,talking about things ETC but both these are built up over the decades they have spent together. So the common thread in all this for me is spending time together doing stuff which builds this deep friendship we call love.

There also must be that element of physical attraction as well. It may be appearance or fragrence what ever floats you boat but for me it must be there for now at least.

To much fantisy or illusion can come from not actually having the physical presence of the other person, for me that is.




Hey man, WTF have you been
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Rodles Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Ecoprincess: Hey man, WTF have you been


just stopped turning PC on for a while piss paw excuse i know but there you have it
Rodles Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Ecoprincess: Hey man, WTF have you been


had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well


blues hope your ok comfort
sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
Rodles: just stopped turning PC on for a while piss paw excuse i know but there you have it
Welcome back Rodles teddybear hug
Rodles Brisbane, Queensland Australia
blondeaozichick: hope your ok


Yes thanks doing alright now.
Took myself and my daughter to the sunshine coast for a week. Left the car and the phone behind and just was and felt and connected.
Rodles Brisbane, Queensland Australia
sxc666: Welcome back Rodles


Thankyou kind lady
kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
hug comfort bouquet

sorry to hear it friend



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Rodles: had some big stuff go down with my dad dieing to never had a parent die before watched plenty of mates loose um but so have just been trying to be gentle to me as well
Hi Rodles sorry to hear bout your loss wave wave wave



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?
Nope.... No Way...., have to see them in da flesh, as how do we really know that a pic or whatever is actually who they really are???I believe you can fall for someone instantly, but thats after you speak with them in da fleshconversing



Butterflyboo1974 Mid North COast, New South Wales Australia
phaedellis: Nope.... No Way...., have to see them in da flesh, as how do we really know that a pic or whatever is actually who they really are???I believe you can fall for someone instantly, but thats after you speak with them in da flesh


[/think that it is possible to 'fall in love' with the IDEA of being in love with a person over the internet / phone...

but it is only when you meet and the sparks begin to fly, and you exchange 'that look' that you know how true that possibility is.....


and then after you meet for the first time..... and the second.... and the third....... then you can fall...... and fall hard.color]

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phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Butterflyboo1974: [/think that it is possible to 'fall in love' with the IDEA of being in love with a person over the internet / phone...

but it is only when you meet and the sparks begin to fly, and you exchange 'that look' that you know how true that possibility is.....and then after you meet for the first time..... and the second.... and the third....... then you can fall...... and fall hard.color]


I believe you can have that instant attraction, and you know your at least interested, but yes the L word takes abit of time wave



SmilingInside Auckland, Auckland New Zealand
I'm confused....

Is that the same as gratuitous sex?
venere08 Adelaide and Tuscany, South Australia Australia
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?


Most definitely, yes. But then the two people MUST meet, and see how that extends to RL.

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shyfleur Tamworth, New South Wales Australia
venere08: Most definitely, yes. But then the two people MUST meet, and see how that extends to RL.


It is possible.

I met my future husband on this site. Well we are engaged ... but haven't actually met face to face yet.

Of course it is True Love.


Love you heaps Bob.



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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
shyfleur: It is possible.

I met my future husband on this site. Well we are engaged ... but haven't actually met face to face yet.

Of course it is True Love.Love you heaps Bob.
How is it possible to take such a huge step without meeting a person. dunno I wish you all the best. But I find that unrealistic.wine



shyfleur Tamworth, New South Wales Australia
sxc666: How is it possible to take such a huge step without meeting a person. I wish you all the best. But I find that unrealistic.


Piss off. How can you judge me?

You are such a fucking idiot.

Keep your opinions to yourself.

I'm moving in with him in less than two weeks.

He loves me.

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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
shyfleur: Piss off. How can you judge me?

You are such a fucking idiot.

Keep your opinions to yourself.

I'm moving in with him in less than two weeks.

He loves me.
I'm sure he is chuffed uh oh You sound wonderful.

I wasn't judging merley stating my opinion on the matter and asking a question. Someone needs to grow up. You do realise this is an adult site.

Ever heard of freedom of speech. roll eyes
poodle2000 Melbourne, Victoria Australia
hey shyfleur - I think we all know who the fucking idiot is! Or should that be spelled T.R.O.L.L.



Butterflyboo1974 Mid North COast, New South Wales Australia
poodle2000: hey shyfleur - I think we all know who the fucking idiot is! Or should that be spelled T.R.O.L.L.



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