Can you fall in love with someone you have never met?

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sxc666 Central Coast, New South Wales Australia
zztopbanana: OK - you will need to elaborate a little on that, if you don't mind, as I still don't understand what 'suss on you' means.

All I meant was, are any of us sufficiently high that we may villify or criticise others - ie, let he without sin cast the first stone. I am not a religious nutter, by the way (well, the nutter bit may be accurate.....).

It wasn't meant as a dig at anyone, just 'who are we to judge', and I include myself in the 'we'.

The correction to 'they' was a feeble attempt to be even-handed.
Yeah I'll pass on smoking the peace pipe on this one. There is a lot more to this story then what you have simply read in this thread.


I'm full of sin and like it that way devil



zztopbanana NSW, OZ & Puke Bay, Porirua, Wellington New Zealand
sxc666: What does when you're not there mean?


OK - I think what I'm trying to say with that remark is, for whatever reason or reasons people or persons fall for you, it is because of how they think of you and about you - it's their own thought processes.

Admittedly, these thought processes or whatever you want to call them are triggered by, or legacy of, stuff you've done, things you've said, how you've been, how you look, etc. etc., but those thouhgts and processes are more active or intense or whatever when you're not there.

When you're with someone, you don't really think about them because you're with them - you do think about them, though, when they're not there.



zztopbanana NSW, OZ & Puke Bay, Porirua, Wellington New Zealand
sxc666: Yeah I'll pass on smoking the peace pipe on this one. There is a lot more to this story then what you have simply read in this thread.I'm full of sin and like it that way


I'm sure there is.

I'm sure you are - each to their own, or have we already said that ???



thetallone1 West Footscray, Victoria Australia
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?

yes you can fall inlove befor you meet them
Butterflyboo1974 Mid North COast, New South Wales Australia
thetallone1: yes you can fall inlove befor you meet them


Recently found out my ex is in L O V E with someone he has never met....

(she is in South Australia)

The strange thing to me is that they are so in love that she is planning to move all the way over to here to be with him... with her four kids....

And they haven't actually met yet....

I can understand being 'in love' with the idea of being in love...., but as for the REAL THING..... I really do think you need to meet first to make sure...

dunno dunno dunno
kismat national park, Waikato New Zealand
Butterflyboo1974 Mid North COast, New South Wales Australia

How I wish that was to me....

sigh

dunno
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
i love you too, Kis!kiss hug

even though we have never met!flirty
kismat national park, Waikato New Zealand
sharpbouquet for u
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
kismat: sharp for u


aaawww, thanksblushing I can't show you what I have got for you!! banana giggle
kismat national park, Waikato New Zealand
Ralf74: aaawww, thanks I can't show you what I have got for you!!


you just mean crying
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
kismat: you just mean


aaawww, come here you hug i'll show you later, there are too many people watching wink
kismat national park, Waikato New Zealand
Ralf74: aaawww, come here you i'll show you later, there are too many people watching


packmypants@stickystuff.cum rolling on the floor laughing
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
kismat: packmypants@stickystuff.cum



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tythoon Tamworth, New South Wales Australia
blondeaozichick: Q: In the day and age of the internet and internet dating, adult chatrooms etc..

do you think it is possible to fall in love with someone you chat to, email, talk to on the phone etc etc before you have even met?



Yes I know it is possable and in some ways I find that it is better than in person because u dont have any physical feelings for that person, it is all about emotion and trust which is what I believe love is about
Hello_you North Shore, Auckland New Zealand
I do think it's possible, how much I like someone has everything to do with my communication with someone. I think online - or over the phone you can fall for someone if you spend enough time communicating.

say you lost your sight - could you not love?

Or lost sight and touch? Don't seem right to say that people in that situation couldn't love.

I think it's easier face to face and harder online. Then again some peoplke are too shy face to face to communicate deeply with someone face to face so maybe for them onloine is easier.

Anyway, I doubt if I'd marry or move country without spending time with someone face to face..but then that's me. Maybe other's are braver or more wiling to risk than I .....good on them.



Love how ever you find it is damn great.

And if you fall in love easier than moast - I'd say lucky you. Most of us are to cautios due to past loses.
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
people who have experienced it will say it exists.. those who haven't say no way.. .. just because you haven't been there doesn't mean it can't happen
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
blondeaozichick: people who have experienced it will say it exists.. those who haven't say no way.. .. just because you haven't been there doesn't mean it can't happen


wave Hey Blonde, i keep missing you when you are on. good to see you back, I missed ya!hug kiss
blondeaozichick Melbourne, Victoria Australia
Ralf74: Hey Blonde, i keep missing you when you are on. good to see you back, I missed ya!


ralfeeeeeeeeee reunion grin you my love are worth coming back for... you make me laugh heaps!! grin and yeah... been caught up with family stuff the last few weeks... and just popping in again now and then when I can.. been avoiding it a bit cos of the agro shit that keeps happening... its not worth the hassle and I get pissed off with the wankers who just want to be arseholes.. wanna let them have it but don't wanna lower myself to their standards roll eyes



bourbon Sunshine Coast, Queensland Australia
blondeaozichick: ralfeeeeeeeeee you my love are worth coming back for... you make me laugh heaps!! and yeah... been caught up with family stuff the last few weeks... and just popping in again now and then when I can.. been avoiding it a bit cos of the agro shit that keeps happening... its not worth the hassle and I get pissed off with the wankers who just want to be arseholes.. wanna let them have it but don't wanna lower myself to their standards


Hey blondie... turning gay? dunno




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