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i suppose all people not just men, are attracted to a certain person, if you match that sweet but if not dont be discouraged there is one out there for you x

poodle2000: I have sent a hello to several men on another dating site, just hoping maybe to get together for a few laughs, some fun and have been rejected by them all. Now, ok I'm not young & gorgeousl anymore but I don't have, as a friend of mine used to say "a face that would scare a bulldog off a meat tray". These are all guys around my own age & not incrediably handsome or anything like that - WTF, do they think they are all going to get a supermodel?

Having MUCH more luck on an "Adult" site - the men there seem more down-to-earth.

I don't know Poodle, wish I could shed some light on it too. Seems to me that if a woman isn't at least 10 years younger than they are (most) they aren't even slightly interested.

The number of hits I get from guys in their mid 50's is rather upsetting. One day, someone will surprise you by agreeing to meet....and he might just be the right one

Ah, I think you mentioned in the title what they want, he he.

I actually just got rejected by a relaxation masseuse because i wasn't willing to allow him to put his greasy hands all over me on the first date (we all know what happened on the last date). His profile stated that he was looking for a woman who doesn't swear and knows how to act like a lady. He contacted me after viewing my profile. I told him that I am definetly not what he was looking for coz I live in my trakkie daks and runners and I can swear with the best of them. Definetly no lady!! He was fine with that and we got chatting. Well he had begged and pleaded to meet with me and told me how much he would love to massage me and make love to me because we seem to have the same sexual appetitie. I told him that I was getting to know someone but I would be happy to meet up for a coffee. So with that he said that he couldn't because he would want to have his way with me and he couldn't handle just having coffee, he would rather not have anything to do with me then???

Ralf74: Ah, I think you mentioned in the title what they want, he he.

I actually just got rejected by a relaxation masseuse because i wasn't willing to allow him to put his greasy hands all over me on the first date (we all know what happened on the last date). His profile stated that he was looking for a woman who doesn't swear and knows how to act like a lady. He contacted me after viewing my profile. I told him that I am definetly not what he was looking for coz I live in my trakkie daks and runners and I can swear with the best of them. Definetly no lady!! He was fine with that and we got chatting. Well he had begged and pleaded to meet with me and told me how much he would love to massage me and make love to me because we seem to have the same sexual appetitie. I told him that I was getting to know someone but I would be happy to meet up for a coffee. So with that he said that he couldn't because he would want to have his way with me and he couldn't handle just having coffee, he would rather not have anything to do with me then???

Mmmmmmm me thinks he reads the forum threads

No a different site, i think!! I can't keep up, stiff shit if he is on here anyway!

I agree with aber

I have no idea what they want, I've sent replies to ppl and just dont get anything back... ??

yes in the same boat...BUGGER..

They just want sex or to see you on webcam
That's why they don't reply because we don't want to give them that

I get replies .......



ooooops

I do to actually

I know lmfao

I thought it was Sydney thing- too much to do etc
I didn't put my mug up so cant expect much. Maybe a Melbourne thing as well??? A better one is "scare a bulldog out of a butcher shop""
You look fine- keep trying, we are OK..I have never seen a single live breathing human being from this site.Had long term relationships from others though. Cheers!

i know what i want but it doesn't seem to want me

i answer many emails and flowers or flirts as they are called elsewhere, and i have many new contacts on my msn since joining dating sites (in fact i wasn't even on msn till then)
i have lengthy communique`s with several females with ages ranging from 26 through to 49, in IM and via forums and email, but .............. after several weeks of this activity i haven't come across a lady that i find interesting and attractive who is any more interested than just internet friends. i've been on a few dates and found that average in the body type description really means "a few extra pounds" and a few extra pounds means " i need to see jenny craig". sure i've had nice times on these dates (non sexual) but not enough spark to make me want to progress any further.

i'm not sure if the "safety in distance" factor comes into play here, but i find that most of the ladies i find witty and posessing compatible personalities to what i think i'd like, all live interstate.
it would appear, that at least where internet dating is concerned, there are no ladies in adelaide, that i find attractive (physically and emotionally) that find me the same.

so poodle you see it would appear you are not an orphan in this and it's something that both genders experience. (i seem to end a lot of posts with that line)

i'm guessing the two P's are required for both of us.... Patience and persistance

Well I got a whole different take on the subject...


The reality is simply this ,
There is too much choice!!!

We are taylor making our perfect people

we are asked what our perfect partner is ...

we are then presented with 76,000 choices...
so
we cull
& we get particular
we hone our preferances
where as initially its like


mmmm single 40 something & working would be nice

[and in all honesty if we bumped shoppingtrolleys with him we would be dating him now}

but soon turns to;

mmmmm divorced or never married , no kids, tall full head of hair , no baggage at all,working but not a workaholic, social drinker, non smoker,good teeth, own a home not rent,sporty but not a fan,romantic , but not a sop,fit but not a gymjunkie etc etc etc

why why why?????

because the next person is yet a click away
& if that fails

there are 10,000 other sites exactly the same .....

JMO
Kizzy

GOD wat a crock of shite some men give me the heeby jeebies you just keep those girlzzzz tucked away for the right one babe then let him have his way with the EEEEEE cup girlzzz you have

Hey there, i don't get many replies for any site i am on, but with the ones i do get what sh*ts me the most is when you hear and read the i would really like to get to know you stuff, talk for a while and then for no apparent reason they just stop talking and cut you cold with no explination

maybe its just me lol

we're not all the infamous kizzy though

meaning???