Martia: You are a Breathe of fresh air who ever ends up with you will be one lucky lady.But one thing I must say if it does not work in the bedroom it cannot work anywhere.There has to be that zing! humans are made like that for hybrid vigor ' also it does not have to be talked about I agree but each to his own.
If it relieves frustration and boredom in some also loneliness in others; many different people from all walks of life might not have much in common but SEX is something everybody enjoys, it can take them to a place where they can forget their problems.Even if it means they are on their own at least they can talk about it and dream about it.There should be a Thread titled( sex talk only) so every one has a choice and wont keep running into this type of thing as I know a lot of members do not like it. And have a thread ( No Penis Vagina talk allowed )
If mentioned that member will be banned to the (sex talk only) thread for a month.
It might bring a lot of members back and they could go on whatever thread they fancy, hop back and forth if they wish'' cant say fairer than that.
Thanks Martia :)
Where is that lucky lady ? What am I doing wrong ?
I guess I could have elaborated a bit more.
You are right and this is why I think so.......from personal experience...
No, sex is something that *almost* all people enjoy. Sorry to dissagree. Not everybody does.
I went out with a girl that didn't like sex at all. Not one bit. She used to start crying during the act. It lasted 3 years, and I guess I fooled myself all the way, thinking that our friendship would save the world, if I ignored her issues. But it didn't. That was a long time ago though, and I guess it is a complicated issue. She said that she didn't know how to say NO at an indroductory age to sex, and felt violated, and we only did it for me. I'm not even going to try and analyse that. But that was one girl of...umm....well a few....
These days I realise good sex is an important part of an intimate and lasting relationship. Which is a condradiction of my original post....Maybe I should have said that a good lasting friendship needs to be as good in bed. I agree.
I once had a one nighter, with a chick that I met at New Years in the Rocks in Sydney, that was soooooooo good that it turned into a year of pure nympho action. We clicked in bed so much so, I couldn't believe it. But after that year, she revealed that she is separated and was going to go back to her husband. WTF! I'm over that though.
I guess this is the reason that I claim that sex isn't everything. But you might find any other bloke that was used as a toy boy would say the same.
I put it all down to 2 things
OK
Good sex
and
trust
Sorry about the essay