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happycamper kallista, Victoria Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:08 PM CST : loosing it
how do you calm yourself down when you know that your'e about to loose it big time, i am so close to it , its brewing, and yes i am thinking happy thoughts.

happycampervery mad
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aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:10 PM CST : loosing it
Funny you should mention this topic today Happy.


I just went out and bought a 6 pack...first one in a long time, I can tell you. But so, so needed.


laugh


Seriously though........that's what the forums are for........let it out.........wave
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happycamper kallista, Victoria Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:18 PM CST : loosing it
with out going into detail

i have to deal with very needy ppl every day and i dont seem to mind , just lately i have come across pple who just bullishit thierway into ppls hearts and they are believed, i cannot say anything but i know as i am very intune with what is going on around me , i am worried that if i hear one more person talk shit i am going to explode.

happyconversing
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cowgirldancer The Patch, Victoria Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:21 PM CST : loosing it
funny that i lost it yesterday watch out !
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aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:27 PM CST : loosing it
happycamper: with out going into detail

i have to deal with very needy ppl every day and i dont seem to mind , just lately i have come across pple who just bullishit thierway into ppls hearts and they are believed, i cannot say anything but i know as i am very intune with what is going on around me , i am worried that if i hear one more person talk shit i am going to explode.

happy



It's ok, we all have our days wink
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happycamper kallista, Victoria Australia
Thu Nov 6, 2008 11:34 PM CST : loosing it
cowgirldancer: funny that i lost it yesterday watch out !
hello cowgirl i am one of your nieghbors why are so pissed off ? i know who you are and i have never in 5 yrs ever seen you upset or angry thats not like you , i will send you a privite email and let you know who i am , go check your mail in a couple of minutes

spanks woops thanks happywave bouquet
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happycamper kallista, Victoria Australia
Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:51 PM CST : loosing it
i need some good hints hear breathing in & out just does not do it ,
i am ready to smack spank hit this person, even if someone else would shut her up i would be delighted and move on but i know have a bee in my bonet conversing frustrated
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kismat national park, Waikato New Zealand
Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:55 PM CST : loosing it
beat me whip me spank me look for the thread you'll feel beta uh oh
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phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Thu Nov 13, 2008 6:48 PM CST : loosing it
happycamper: i need some good hints hear breathing in & out just does not do it ,
i am ready to smack spank hit this person, even if someone else would shut her up i would be delighted and move on but i know have a bee in my bonet


So Happy it's a she confused not into violence myself, but if it makes you feel better then get it over and done with?
you have not really stated the point tho, so pretty hard for us to comment honestly dunno
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happycamper kallista, Victoria Australia
Sun Nov 16, 2008 9:59 PM CST : loosing it
phaedellis: So Happy it's a she not into violence myself, but if it makes you feel better then get it over and done with?
you have not really stated the point tho, so pretty hard for us to comment honestly
well the piont is in detail is this HOW DO YOU STOP YOURSELF FROM GOING OFF,WHEN YOU HAVE A BUILT UP OF EMOTION.i think that is simple to understand.

happy most of the time
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cowgirldancer The Patch, Victoria Australia
Sun Nov 16, 2008 10:03 PM CST : loosing it
happycamper: well the piont is in detail is this HOW DO YOU STOP YOURSELF FROM GOING OFF,WHEN YOU HAVE A BUILT UP OF EMOTION.i think that is simple to understand.

happy most of the time



hi little k (happy) I get it
Iusually try to find just one thing about that person that makes me smile and think about that or just pull them aside and have a chat .

cgdlips sad flower
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JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 12:19 AM CST : loosing it
cowgirldancer: hi little k (happy) I get it
Iusually try to find just one thing about that person that makes me smile and think about that or just pull them aside and have a chat .

cgd
hi happy,you could try what adam sandler did in the WATERBOY. Just imagine them as little puppies or some other non-intimidating creature and smile.comfort cheers
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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 12:35 AM CST : loosing it
JASON656: hi happy,you could try what adam sandler did in the WATERBOY. Just imagine them as little puppies or some other non-intimidating creature and smile.


I don't normally go off at people as I am upfront and honest so most know when I am not happy before I have to get nasty, you do get the occassional dumb one! I do however go off at myself particularly if I can't do something that I know I should be able to do. Then I have a hissy fit and start swearing and throwing things, it isn't a pretty site. laugh
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JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:16 AM CST : loosing it
Ralf74: I don't normally go off at people as I am upfront and honest so most know when I am not happy before I have to get nasty, you do get the occassional dumb one! I do however go off at myself particularly if I can't do something that I know I should be able to do. Then I have a hissy fit and start swearing and throwing things, it isn't a pretty site.
that sounds familiar Ralf,I thought that only I did thatlaugh
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ploughingstar thallon, Queensland Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:25 AM CST : loosing it
cowgirldancer: hi little k (happy) I get it
Iusually try to find just one thing about that person that makes me smile and think about that or just pull them aside and have a chat .

cgd
with u cgd think of how my little girl makes me feel inside then pull them aside later when chilled out
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CuspofMagic Adelaide, South Australia Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:26 AM CST : loosing it
hug them - breathe- convert that energy through the firmness of the hug--- gently, softly

and for heavens sake! --- Dont squeeze the Shit! out of them
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ploughingstar thallon, Queensland Australia
Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:43 AM CST : loosing it
CuspofMagic: hug them - breathe- convert that energy through the firmness of the hug--- gently, softly

and for heavens sake! --- Dont squeeze the Shit! out of them
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing yes bear hugs dont count as affection!!!!!!!
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terryorphin08 Sydney, New South Wales Australia
Tue Dec 9, 2008 4:52 AM CST : loosing it
Get up and walk around!
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Darkhorseman Gold Coast, Queensland Australia
Thu Dec 11, 2008 5:31 PM CST : loosing it
happycamper: how do you calm yourself down when you know that your'e about to loose it big time, i am so close to it , its brewing, and yes i am thinking happy thoughts.

happycamper


In the "old days" we used to be able to remove the source of our angst. Nowadays we have to remove ourselves from them.

I'd be a rich man today if only my parents had not taught me to be charitable.
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WaterDragpn Toowoomba, Queensland Australia
Thu Dec 11, 2008 6:02 PM CST : loosing it
It's NEVER too late to change the way you think and act!!
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