Australia/New Zealand Forums 100% Free Online Dating

Yes my opinion, not a lecture.

For me I couldnt do it !!!
Ide bail !
I say this because my ex husband was f@cked in the head so i think that is similar ...
The torchureous mind games , the control, the mood swings I will neva go thru that again for anyman . so if your contactin me & ya got prozac on ya dresser please dont bother ...
Shelley more power to ya if you can do it but for me I got one hell of a life & Im not about to throw it away .
Living with a mental illness is soul destroying...
Not for me Im afraid

astalavista baby!

Kizzy

I thank you all for your wisdom and understanding,Shelley on the other hand needs to get out and get some experience under her belt before passing judgement on me or anyone....

Sounz like your husband was just farked in the head because he chose to, big difference when it's a sickness, and i don't have prozac sitting on my dresser kizzy.......at the end of the day, jason will do what he's gonna do, and good luck to him just like we all do what we're gonna do no matter what people say....so

Your so funny alright Jason, you put up a messagem, people put in their opinions and you diss them, nice real nice. as for me having experience i have plenty, i have worked and cared for people who still suffer from traumas through them being in the war, from all walks of life, so don't even go there Jason, you don't know crap about me, Good luck for your future.

I'm sure we can all not truly understand this unless we have first hand knowledge, those of us that do have that knowledge I am sure are sensitive to the subject.

The key is respecting everyones view on things and not letting a subject like this get out of hand, voice our opinions and hopefully help each other in some way.

I agree with you Tina opinions are essential in the forums.Passing Judgement however in any case is wrong for any reason unless as you have said,you have the experience yourself of the problem.Shelley I worked for many years with RSL home services doing exactly the same job as you and watching the veterans die of old age and broken spirits.My Grandfather went through the war and rose from private to Major after recieving every medal for bravery and valour in the royal army.I merely asked for advice here not some holier than thou passing judgement on my person.

I think the problem hits home with many of us and inevitably gets out of hand, but your right sxcc were not here to judge, were here to hopefully voice our opinions, lend a shoulder, and no need to turn it around into an attackathon, Jason you did wat you thought best with your little ones best interest at heart, and possibly i would do the same given the same situation, bi polar is bad enough but schizophrenia as well would be heartbreaking, look after your little one Jase and bugger wat anyone else says you did wat you had to do, good for you!

What i would have said..

sxc666: I'm sure we can all not truly understand this unless we have first hand knowledge, those of us that do have that knowledge I am sure are sensitive to the subject.

The key is respecting everyones view on things and not letting a subject like this get out of hand, voice our opinions and hopefully help each other in some way.

Quite right SXC

spot on Phae. Hold your head high Jason and take comfort in the thought you did what you thought was best, that is all anyone can ask of you.

I'm sure any parent would put their children first, even before their partner. I know I would in a hearbeat.

In a hearbeat and a heartbeat even

Blah blah blah get over yourself already jason and be a man, if ya gonna leave your wife than leave her instead of looking for sympathy for what your going to do, mr holier than yourslef Ya gonna do what you already knew what you were gonna do before you put this thread up so handle the feedback and show some form

Blah blah blah get over yourself already jason and be a man, if ya gonna leave your wife than leave her instead of looking for sympathy for what your going to do, mr holier than yourslef Ya gonna do what you already knew what you were gonna do before you put this thread up so handle the feedback and show some form

Shelly, Jase already stated that he has left his wife, and having to deal with actually leaving, would be much harder than thinking about it, you have had your say, so no need to get all NARKY about it, your not a child, and these threads are not here to put others down but to hopefully help and be some sort of support, so were here for you jason

Now that's just being a bitch

Hey sxcccccc girl i keep missing you, how have you bin

Hang on Phae, i totally agree with you, but if you read the threads i wrote to jason were my opinions yes, but also supportive of his decision, i did not put anyone down (other than the last one)and if you read his referring to me, he was the one putting me down. so im not being narky about nothing, but i still stand by what i said. My opinion and nothing else and if he don't like what i said fine, but no need for him to get personal, e.g. i need to get a life, oh please like i said to him, he don't no crap about me. thank you for your advise, wisdom or whatever you would like to call it, but to be honest, i totally can't be bothered about having this conversation or even coming back into this thread or any other thread that jason puts out there, I wouldn't want to upset him.

have a good day.

Hello pretty lady been good, busy but good.