oztrack: Can I change the topic here....I know its probably not quite the time...but I want to!
Come on men....lets hear your experiences!
And Kizzy asks
but the question is .....
do you know when a girl fakes it on ya ?
Does it make you feel bad ?
Or once ya blow ya couldnt give a toss?
Deep Breath.........here goes
Not the most experienced bloke on earth having only done the train in the tunnel with two women (maybe handcart would be a better description?).
The first seemed to enjoy herself, at least she kept coming back. She was quite a bit older than my sweet sixteen and had a fair bit of experience. Myself, like the good little scientist I am made sure I had done a lot of research and reading prior to the first practical application.
The second I met at 17, married, and forsaking all others stayed married for 20 years. I did always try my best to bring her to the high point though occasionally missed the mark.
Other than that I've had a few pretty heavy sessions of petting and tom foolery sometimes involving massage (seems to help the ladies relax) after 2 hours I can usually rub anywhere. As a result I have had one failure but at 15 that could be excused I think.
Did any of them fake it? I honestly don't know though I don't think so.
Do I care? Yes and no.
Yes in that I get most of my pleasure from giving pleasure.
No because she is only cheating herself. I believe that women are totally responsible for their own climax.
DUCK!!!!
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When the smoke clears I will continue and explain the statement.
A man cannot be expected to know what the buttons are and where they are located or how important they are to each and every woman. If what the man is doing is insufficient for the lady to reach the level of arousal she is after then it is up to her to guide the man in how to please her not for him to try and guess. Then if she fakes it because he is ignorant of what she needs how can she complain if he continues to do what seems to work?
Some women like oral, some don't.
Some women like anal, some don't.
Some women like clitoral, some don't.
Guys take a tip.
I've only met one that didn't like massage and her comment was that if she couldn't take the whole trip she didn't want to start travelling and at the time I wasn't prepared for the journey.
Or once ya blow ya couldnt give a toss?
See above.
Well that's my 0.08 Danish Krone