Men" do you ever grow up.

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Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
I am sure there are some wonderful guys out there who are looking for a soulmate to spend the rest of thier lives with.And before anyone gets thier knickers in a knot this is only my experience and my experience alone. I am 61 have been told I am attractive a loyal friend, kind to animals and children
168 cen( 5.6in) 68 kg dont nag loving and passionate yet where are all these single males hiding in my age group, its the same on other sites too are they dying at my age!( I dont think so,) or having so much fun running around from one lady to another that when they do decide enough is enough they will be too worn out to be good for anything at all. Because if you look at thier profiles they are running ,jumping, swimming, sky diving, climbing mountains and gym 5 nights a week.The rest of the time they are dancing, singing and eating stirfry and salads to keep up thier libido which of course is going great guns.(oh yer)
This is the over 55 age group. These dating sites make it so easy just sit at the computer and take your pick and I promise you" for us ladies in the same age group we were not brought up to be aggressive like it is today the men have always been the hunters so it is easy for them to adapt. Even if we tried to change we would be classed as cheap and desperate because that male of our era demands we remain ladies at all times IF they decide to choose one of our age group.Cant win; think I will go back to my knitting.

frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated frustrated
Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Sounds like you're just too nice, Martia dunno kiss



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
wave Hi Martia you know it doesnt matter which age group you are in they are all the same.....and we dont know who is for real and who isnt these days, most of the guys in my age bracket just dont exist...well not my type anyway, and the ones that are semi ok have got some young chicky babe on their armdoh cant win, so wats left lets see i get asked out mostly by guys in their 30s on here and in the real world, and maybe i should just go for it, as the young girls are going out with all the guys my age so wats the point i may as well give in and go for someone a little younger than myself hey?
Oh and you look great for your age thumbs up



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
Hey Martia wave don't despair. I am sure there are some mature ones around. Although I admit what we have seen of male maturity lately, leaves one to ponder.

We are all bashing our heads against the brick wall too. If they are not too young then they are too old. Nothing around the designated age group...unless it happens to be miles and miles away of course.


Stick with it...wine
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
Thanks ladies its a real worry because The regular girls on here are really good looking and smart and I would guess sexy too, this is no bullshit!! So go younger for sure as you are just only getting to your sexuel peak and some (I say only some you guys) OOPS'' in your age group are starting to slow down so bring on the replacements go for it. Nothing to lose.

cheering cheering cheering cheering cheering cheering



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
Now there is some sound advice.

Martia, I think our latest thread troll has been axed, his nasty last letter has disappeared.

Good news heh ? yay



phaedellis Brisbane, Queensland Australia
Martia: Thanks ladies its a real worry because The regular girls on here are really good looking and smart and I would guess sexy too, this is no bullshit!! So go younger for sure as you are just only getting to your sexuel peak and some (I say only some you guys) OOPS'' in your age group are starting to slow down so bring on the replacements go for it. Nothing to lose.


Hey girl same goes for you tooo!!!!! your nowhere near old, and yet you look at half the guys in your age bracket and love NO WAY would you go near them, so maybe you should go a little younger too no worries..thumbs up



aberfoyle Coffs Harbour, New South Wales Australia
Well I think I still have a bed, so might go and use it.

Goodnight everyone ... well those who are still up and about anyway


wave wave wave
JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
phaedellis: Hi Martia you know it doesnt matter which age group you are in they are all the same.....and we dont know who is for real and who isnt these days, most of the guys in my age bracket just dont exist...well not my type anyway, and the ones that are semi ok have got some young chicky babe on their arm cant win, so wats left lets see i get asked out mostly by guys in their 30s on here and in the real world, and maybe i should just go for it, as the young girls are going out with all the guys my age so wats the point i may as well give in and go for someone a little younger than myself hey?
Oh and you look great for your age
I'm a 41 yr old male and I can't find a lady my age in mackay on here,go figuredunno help help
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
aberfoyle: Now there is some sound advice.

Martia, I think our latest thread troll has been axed, his nasty last letter has disappeared.

Good news heh ?


Thank goodness for that it looks like the C S site are doing a good job I might send them a message to thank them( doesent hurt) hope it helps kizzy sleep a bit better knowing they are on top of it.
JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
Martia: Thanks ladies its a real worry because The regular girls on here are really good looking and smart and I would guess sexy too, this is no bullshit!! So go younger for sure as you are just only getting to your sexuel peak and some (I say only some you guys) OOPS'' in your age group are starting to slow down so bring on the replacements go for it. Nothing to lose.
well martia I would be very proud to be seen with you on my armbeer
oztrack Perth, Western Australia Australia
Martia: I am sure there are some wonderful guys out there who are looking for a soulmate to spend the rest of thier lives with.And before anyone gets thier knickers in a knot this is only my experience and my experience alone. I am 61 have been told I am attractive a loyal friend, kind to animals and children
168 cen( 5.6in) 68 kg dont nag loving and passionate yet where are all these single males hiding in my age group, its the same on other sites too are they dying at my age!( I dont think so,) or having so much fun running around from one lady to another that when they do decide enough is enough they will be too worn out to be good for anything at all. Because if you look at thier profiles they are running ,jumping, swimming, sky diving, climbing mountains and gym 5 nights a week.The rest of the time they are dancing, singing and eating stirfry and salads to keep up thier libido which of course is going great guns.(oh yer)
This is the over 55 age group. These dating sites make it so easy just sit at the computer and take your pick and I promise you" for us ladies in the same age group we were not brought up to be aggressive like it is today the men have always been the hunters so it is easy for them to adapt.



Hey there....I'm of the age group you are talking about.

Well...let me explain. I was marrried for 11 years, she died, I had two small chidldren to care for, I worked , did what I could as parent, now they are grown up and independent...great kids and just what I hoped for....as would their mother.

So now....for me, I want friends, I want to do what I want in life now,I travel, I live on my own, I want to enjoy life as much as I can, give back a bit, using the skills I have gained over the past 30 years....

What do I want now...I'm not really sure, well certainly friends, but do I want another partner....not sure. I'm happy with myself, but if someone came along who fittd with my lifestyle, I would be interested. But how do I find that somone?.....I'm not sure.


Anyone have the same issues?
Even if we tried to change we would be classed as cheap and desperate because that male of our era demands we remain ladies at all times IF they decide to choose one of our age group.Cant win; think I will go back to my knitting.
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
phaedellis: Hey girl same goes for you tooo!!!!! your nowhere near old, and yet you look at half the guys in your age bracket and love NO WAY would you go near them, so maybe you should go a little younger too no worries..


Tried that but they seem to be the ones that are going backwoods so fast and even jumping a generation to get there , all I can see is a cloud of dust! talk about the road runners they are even overtaking them" so what hope has a little old lady like me got,cant run 50 metres without gasping for breath.

moping moping moping moping wink wink
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
JASON656: well martia I would be very proud to be seen with you on my arm


You Little darling ,standing at your door panting with desire,you are adorable UM"" whats your number.

wow wow wow wow wow
oztrack Perth, Western Australia Australia
Well that was a mess....sorry if it was unreadable...I'm new here and getting used to the system.

Please try to read it and let me know how you fel about it.
Thanks
psuedonym adelaide, South Australia Australia
seems sometimes, no matter how hard we try, blokes just have no hope making ladies happy. roll eyes

hey martia , all those frustrations you have with your current situation, are also ones that we mere males have to contend with too. i think it's more that it's very hard to find a person , regardless of which sex, that is compatible. just shows how diverse the human race can be i guessbeer
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
phaedellis: Hi Martia you know it doesnt matter which age group you are in they are all the same.....and we dont know who is for real and who isnt these days, most of the guys in my age bracket just dont exist...well not my type anyway, and the ones that are semi ok have got some young chicky babe on their arm cant win, so wats left lets see i get asked out mostly by guys in their 30s on here and in the real world, and maybe i should just go for it, as the young girls are going out with all the guys my age so wats the point i may as well give in and go for someone a little younger than myself hey?
Oh and you look great for your age


Hey did you see that lovley guy Jason from YOUR STATE he seems a great guy too' are your feet glued to the floor, you should be able to out run me in fact anyone could not fair.Breathe easy Jason my feet hurt.

handshake handshake handshake
JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
Martia: You Little darling ,standing at your door panting with desire,you are adorable UM"" whats your number.
unfortuanately I live in mackay martia but if we lived closer lookout....exciting days,passionate nights and no end to your joy and happinessbouquet
JASON656 MACKAY, Queensland Australia
psuedonym: seems sometimes, no matter how hard we try, blokes just have no hope making ladies happy.

hey martia , all those frustrations you have with your current situation, are also ones that we mere males have to contend with too. i think it's more that it's very hard to find a person , regardless of which sex, that is compatible. just shows how diverse the human race can be i guess

If finding our soulmates were easy,we wouldn't need to be on here. .professor
Martia benalla, Victoria Australia
psuedonym: seems sometimes, no matter how hard we try, blokes just have no hope making ladies happy.

hey martia , all those frustrations you have with your current situation, are also ones that we mere males have to contend with too. i think it's more that it's very hard to find a person , regardless of which sex, that is compatible. just shows how diverse the human race can be i guess


Oh darling you are a real sweetie, you are so much better than you think you are! go for it as time waits for no man ERR no thats not right I have been saying woman for the last hour,UM think you maybe right but then again ?????????????????????????? confused confused confused confused confused confused




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