Martia: I am sure there are some wonderful guys out there who are looking for a soulmate to spend the rest of thier lives with.And before anyone gets thier knickers in a knot this is only my experience and my experience alone. I am 61 have been told I am attractive a loyal friend, kind to animals and children
168 cen( 5.6in) 68 kg dont nag loving and passionate yet where are all these single males hiding in my age group, its the same on other sites too are they dying at my age!( I dont think so,) or having so much fun running around from one lady to another that when they do decide enough is enough they will be too worn out to be good for anything at all. Because if you look at thier profiles they are running ,jumping, swimming, sky diving, climbing mountains and gym 5 nights a week.The rest of the time they are dancing, singing and eating stirfry and salads to keep up thier libido which of course is going great guns.(oh yer)
This is the over 55 age group. These dating sites make it so easy just sit at the computer and take your pick and I promise you" for us ladies in the same age group we were not brought up to be aggressive like it is today the men have always been the hunters so it is easy for them to adapt.
Hey there....I'm of the age group you are talking about.
Well...let me explain. I was marrried for 11 years, she died, I had two small chidldren to care for, I worked , did what I could as parent, now they are grown up and independent...great kids and just what I hoped for....as would their mother.
So now....for me, I want friends, I want to do what I want in life now,I travel, I live on my own, I want to enjoy life as much as I can, give back a bit, using the skills I have gained over the past 30 years....
What do I want now...I'm not really sure, well certainly friends, but do I want another partner....not sure. I'm happy with myself, but if someone came along who fittd with my lifestyle, I would be interested. But how do I find that somone?.....I'm not sure.
Anyone have the same issues?
Even if we tried to change we would be classed as cheap and desperate because that male of our era demands we remain ladies at all times IF they decide to choose one of our age group.Cant win; think I will go back to my knitting.