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That sound almost like she could have jealousy issues,is very needy and wants 100 percent attention and anyone else like a child she would have to share the attention, and that would not be good for any child, so good job she said so in the beginning, and didn't become the wicked stepmother.

I call baggage what a woman will blame you for, be scared of about you or feel the need to hide something from you without you ever being in any of these situations with them. But it's luggage and everyone has it. Guys too

I think that is really well put, Kis!

Regardless of who we are or what we want to do in our next relationships we will always have those walls built to protect us from the harms that have been dealt to us. Providing the conditions are right, we can slowly overcome them but for some they may take time depending on the severity.

I agree, but a lot can boil down to how we deal with the baggage we carry, for example does the person carry hate, resentment ?

We all carry baggage from past relationships,usually so we can learn from it and not repeat the same mistakes but memories are with us forever.

I think 'no baggage' means 'dont bring your hassles with u' A new relationship doesnt need hassles of someone elses??

I never say no baggage but listen very carefully (most times) to what the say if they say really nasty things about there ex within the first half dozen emails I end it. Kids dont worry me cause i have my own and I cant have more.
My main thing is id prefer that their last relationship is over completely, in the sense that they are not in court for settlements. If they are still friends with them no probs just dont drag me into your fights please.

baggage refers to your past or your ex's. some ladies or men carry their ex into the relationship making it an extra baggage or burden on the new relationship.

Does that explanation help?

The key is to make better memories which will over time forge its place over not so good memories. Be positive.

Yes thank you Rosella

I hope you meant pawns then phae

serious?? gawd.. what a control freak she is

To me .. everyone has baggage. It can be due to past relationships, it can be due to experiences growing up, past health issues, traumas, family the list goes on.

All that baggage is what has made us the people we are today, it has shaped our lives, the way we react to things, the way we view adversity, the way we face life, how we treat others and how we expect to be treated.

If someone has NO baggage, then they haven't lived, they haven't experienced, they haven't loved, they haven't hated and they haven't learnt. In other words they've lived in a complete vacume totally cut off from all experience.

Anyone wants to infer that my 'shortie person' is baggage, can just go and get stuffed. My 'baggage' has taught me that I will never let anything come between me and 'shortie'. Some 'baggage' just isn't open to debate or interference. I understand that some people dont get that.. well thats their baggage.

For me .. the only baggage I wont try to tolerate is drug addiction.. now thats BAGGAGE. Oh and perhaps if they wanted to wear my underwear.. I dont think I'd like that baggage either.

Hey blondie yeah i did thans for picking me up on that

oooops ( THANKS)

no way I would want any guy wearing my undies

no problemo phae

how are you love? havent seen you on much lately?

molly

okay.. you asked for it

Babbage - The structured assembly language for the General Electric Company 4xxx range of computers and their OS4000 operating system. It is strictly an assembler in that the generated code is relatively predictable but it can be written in a sufficiently structured manner, with indentation, control statements, function and procedure calls, to make the resultant source easy to read and manage. Even with this visible structure however, it is important to remember that the assembly of the statement is done left to right.

The British videotext system, Prestel is programmed in Babbage.

As someone who has no children, I can say that I understand where she is at.