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Hey you dont mention older ladies only younger ones and I am deeply hurt. I also have more experience than you so I could teach you a thing or two.So lamon my darling go with the flow.

OLDER WOMEN: Thank you for your reply & yes you are right with only some issues & I am sorry if I hurt your feelings deeply inside however there are things that you do not fully understand about life & many things do happen in our lives from our early childhood experiences & teen experiences that will determine suitability’s & requirements we need both physically & the age of a partner, emotionally & sexually from a partner too. Personally I could not enjoy a sexual relationship with a few extra pounds girl due to my own personal reasons from my early childhood experiences regarding older women & I am a slim guy myself. Slim people tend to choose slim partners, average weight people tend to choose partners similar in weight to themselves & so on.

I will give you just one example from many different examples why some men will not entertain the idea of seeking relationships with older women. Example what if a guy during his childhood was emotionally abused physically abused or sexually abuse by a much older person or by an older women (mother) can you really expect a guy to want to form a relationship with a girl resembling certain physical & (age), emotional, psychological characteristics resembling his terrible mother or older woman or man. Of course not. This did not happen to me personally but I have counselled many people about this very issue.

You might have more experience than me in some areas however I have met many older women who have not experienced life & therefore have very limited knowledge about successfully sustaining relationships because many women & men continually make the same mistakes over & over again in new relationships resulting in unhappy or total relationship breakdown failures in future relationships with other people. Just look at the divorce rates & second, third relationship failures in Australia. 2008

I know I have hurt you but before you speak up about saying you know more about relationships than me can you understand why intelligent people might say to you, you opened your mouth to soon without really understanding the many different reasons & experiences in life will cause a person to act & or make decisions about their prospective partner requirements, A person has every right to choose the type of person, age etc. they deeply want to love & share their life with. You have no right to enforce your ideals into my life however because I am a wise man I will listen to you.

I will leave you with my final answer for you in a very loving & caring way so you can have more wisdom about life.

You are not correct about saying older women are any better than younger women successful sustaining long term relationships. For you personally you might be?

Can I suggest to you in a very kind & loving way it might be best in the future if you want to further grow & develop inside ASK THE PERSON WHY, WHY, WHY, WHY the reasons why a person forms different opinions about life rather than jumping down someone’s throat claiming you know more about life than other people. I can understand why you said this to me because I have hurt you deeply inside & I am very sorry.

I have been in the past 10 years an interpersonal relationship marriage guidance counsellor so to be kind & caring to you yes I do know a lot more about relationships than you but I am always willing to learn from other people new ideas new approaches in life. We all experience life differently from each other for better or for worse.

I very wise university lecture said to me one day a wise person will always ask the question WHY? This is called wisdom - THIS IS HOW WE LEARN FROM OTHER PEOPLE an inexperienced person will jump in opens his or her mouth to soon & condems others makes a fool of him or herself in front of other people.

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Nah I was only teasing you,Also I have a name it is MARTIA.Anyway lemon please lighten up' you seem a really nice guy also I am not into younger men as they cannot keep up the pace!! just dont become a legend in your own mind,methinks you boast a bit too much. For in a few years time you will be an OLDER MAN.

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