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cold words warm heart??

awwwwww bourbs.. that warm enough ?

oh I know.. its so hard having all these younger men just not damn well leaving us alone



and sorry red.. yahoo is just not signing in at all... stupid friggen thing

That's too warm... now I'm concerned.

What are you up to?

exactly Thanx Blonde

This is a real issue for me....I guess as well as others of my age.


I like young people, I have two daughters in their 20s...and I like young people. However, I an realistic enough to realise that it is not appropriate for me to seek the friendship (or more) of young people their age.

As I am not actually looking for a partner, I am in an unusual position in this site....or so I think.

I have many friends in Indonesia, most of whom are women and the majority of them are half my age. My best friend is the same age as my eldest daughter. Many of them are amazed that I dont want to marry them.

I have never misrepresented my age and have no intention to seek a much younger partner....I cannot see how it could possibly work.

What do people think about overseas younger partners?

who me?.. nuffin

You mean rent-a-brides??

what wrong with looking in your own back yard if your looking for a relationship? JMO

and just wondering why you said.. overseas YOUNGER partners?

Age differences aren't seen as much of an issue in most asian countries.

I was referring back to the original subject....which specifically talked about men seeking younger women. Thats all...

My dad married a 26yr old Philipino when he was 46 and I thought he was a dirty old man and he still is
He's 72 now and still married to her
so it does work sometimes

Thats true...I have often heard the comment "Age is nothing but a number"....I don't agree.

Not really

when i was 34 my eldest daughter was 17, and i had a love interest for a brief period that was only 2 years older than my daughter. that was so odd at the time that, although miss 19 and i were getting along very well, i ended it before it got too far. i wasn't looking for a younger partner when we started seeing each other, it was one of those grew together situations. we were introduced to one another through work , and as she had to relocate to start employment where we were, she needed to set up a flat to live in. i had some furniture that was surplus to my needs so i gave her some stuff. we then went out on little mates dates like the movies and the footy etc. and then one outing to the movies (titanic i think) she started cuddling and stuff , no longer were we mates dating. anyway as i said , i got uncomfortable with it so ended it.
i bumped into her at a shopping centre about 12 months ago , we chatted for a while over a coffee. she's now 30 with a partner and 2 kids. she told me she regretted us parting ways. again i got uncomfortable, but i resisted. so when i was 34 and she was 19 that was a really big age gap. but now i think of it 45 to 30 doesnt seem as bad.
i wont be pursuing that scenario ant further as would be quite obvious, but things like that make you wonder "what if?"

Well Ladies,I would to share a experience with you, and would like your opinion.Six months ago on a Friday night,I was at my local Cafe in Titirangi socializing,I met three three single Ladies in the late thirties,early Forties,all of them were very attractive,well educated and so called intelligent,after quite a few Wines,they admitted to me,note, all of them said,they prefer 18 years old men,much better 'Stamina' and much more 'sexier' looking,one if admitted she had Sex with a Sixteen year old 'Boy',to quote her exact words 'I broke him in!!!!'and she was proud of it,my response was There reply was I was 'Disrespectful of Woman'.So there you have it,so please, its not only Men too!!! John Dutchie

I guess it depends what you'e looking for - I DO think some of the guys are kidding themselves, living in fantasy land. Let's face it, how can you have a real relationship with someone so much younger - you would not have many things in common, so what would you talk about?

But if you're just after a bit of fun, what's the harm? As far as "fun" goes I wouldn't bother with most men my own age - too old & worn-out If I was looking for a relationship (which I'm not) I would be looking for a mature, intelligent man my own age but since I'm only looking for fun, the younger the better (but I would draw the line at 16!!!)

predators Dutchie !!! Not Kool

My memory of being 16 would be guys that age are not so fussy....

How about seeing a 25 year old woman with a husband over 80, with a couple children under 4, was very common here, a guy here was a (broker got $8000 commission each match and I don't think its legal but he got away with it) buying wives from over seas and it became an epidemic buying spree. Some of these guys were walking around on walking frames. God knows how they managed to impregnate the wife, makes the imagination run wild.

Welcome to the world of Capitalism.