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harleyrose: yes four should be enough.....

Ralf74: Thanks Ozi, my dad's sister (my Aunt)in Scotland just recently had a double mastectomy too. Hope the result isn't the same.

crazzzymolly: I HATE THE INCOMPETENT MEDICAL SYSTEM WE HAVE IN THE COUNTRY , I have lost a 23 year old friend from breast cancer 10 months ago leaving an 8 year old son motherless , because they opened her up said it was too virulent a lump the doctor closed her up LEAVING it there and didn't get her another appointment to have it removed for 8 weeks, consequently it ran through her body like wild fire. Her mother was also diagnosed with cancer around the same time and she has had to wait so long for treatment she is not going to make it to Christmas two people from the same family in one year. MY best friend and her lovely daughter, My prayers will be for them forever

Ralf74: My sister and i found our father, hung to his death in our driveway at 2am in the morning. He had committed suicide. I was 18 at the time and my sister was 17. She totally freaked out to the point that she was almost climbing through the back window of his landcruiser we pulled up in which doesn't actually open. It was pitch black except for the lights of the vehicle pointed straight at him. He was white as a sheet and his tongue was swollen to the point it no longer fit in his mouth, an image that will never leave me. Being her big sister i had to comfort her and take control of the situation. She was driving at the time and i instructed her to head straight to the police, we couldn't stay there for her sake. She was driving all over the road and i was hallucinating but i told her to pull over so i could drive. The police councelled my sister and the police, coroner and myself headed back to the ghastly site to identify the body and to take him down. The police offered to tell my mum and 3 younger siblings but i said that I could manage it. So i went knocking on their door at 5am with the news. Mum was beside herself, she had only left our family home a week beforehand as she was sick of his alcoholism and he was beginning to become violent.

I personally, had to handle all of that which is fine, but what makes me angry is that my sisters and brother have all been affected in their lives because of what he did. My brother in particular has a really hard time because he was only 8 at the time and hardly knew his father. He gets emotional sometimes and wants to seek out dad's side of the family because they all live in Scotland so we don't see them. It just breaks my heart to see him like that, the girls are a little better at hiding the pain but i can still see it in their everyday lives. I at least had a good relationship with my dad, but the rest didn't really know him at all.

Twodawgz: This fucking asshole, older than moses motherfucker almost runs over me and my three 5 year old nieces pulling out of a car space at there play school centre this morning. First of all, you obviously can't fucking see to drive your goddamn car, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING PARKED AT THE PLAY CENTRE ??? You're supposed to be watching when you back your car back , not staring the fuck forward with drool running down your fucking chin, you old tool. I shouldn't have to snatch the three kids up and scream at the top of my lungs for you to stop the god damn car. Selfish old prick, you being on the road is ludicrous. The road transport authorieties needs to be retesting these old fuckers every 6 months for license renewal. You're geriatric ass shouldn't even be behind the wheel of a car when you need a fuckin cane to walk and glasses as thick as windows to see. get the fuck off the road before you kill someone..

maybesoon: seems like a good moment,... but only once!!!!i miss my mum and dad, both have pass away!!! they seem to have brought a mix up, screw up family together, with all thier problem, it was a family, not a close one, but still a family!!! since they have moved on, its back to the way it was, except its distance again, never to comeback together...

another xams on my own watching grass grow, as my son is going to his mums, and i cant get the xams thing together, its better that he goes to them for xams,

its hard but i just have to put up with it!!! maybe next year might be good, merry xams to you horny lot anyway!!!!

Ralf74: My sister and i found our father, hung to his death in our driveway at 2am in the morning. He had committed suicide. I was 18 at the time and my sister was 17. She totally freaked out to the point that she was almost climbing through the back window of his landcruiser we pulled up in which doesn't actually open. It was pitch black except for the lights of the vehicle pointed straight at him. He was white as a sheet and his tongue was swollen to the point it no longer fit in his mouth, an image that will never leave me. Being her big sister i had to comfort her and take control of the situation. She was driving at the time and i instructed her to head straight to the police, we couldn't stay there for her sake. She was driving all over the road and i was hallucinating but i told her to pull over so i could drive. The police councelled my sister and the police, coroner and myself headed back to the ghastly site to identify the body and to take him down. The police offered to tell my mum and 3 younger siblings but i said that I could manage it. So i went knocking on their door at 5am with the news. Mum was beside herself, she had only left our family home a week beforehand as she was sick of his alcoholism and he was beginning to become violent.

I personally, had to handle all of that which is fine, but what makes me angry is that my sisters and brother have all been affected in their lives because of what he did. My brother in particular has a really hard time because he was only 8 at the time and hardly knew his father. He gets emotional sometimes and wants to seek out dad's side of the family because they all live in Scotland so we don't see them. It just breaks my heart to see him like that, the girls are a little better at hiding the pain but i can still see it in their everyday lives. I at least had a good relationship with my dad, but the rest didn't really know him at all.

crazzzymolly: I HATE THE INCOMPETENT MEDICAL SYSTEM WE HAVE IN THE COUNTRY , I have lost a 23 year old friend from breast cancer 10 months ago leaving an 8 year old son motherless , because they opened her up said it was too virulent a lump the doctor closed her up LEAVING it there and didn't get her another appointment to have it removed for 8 weeks, consequently it ran through her body like wild fire. Her mother was also diagnosed with cancer around the same time and she has had to wait so long for treatment she is not going to make it to Christmas two people from the same family in one year. MY best friend and her lovely daughter, My prayers will be for them forever

oztrack: Oh Ralf...it brings back so many memories for me...
My wife was diagnosed with breast cancer when pregnant with our youngest daughter in 1983...lumps in her breast...induced birth the next day and total mastectomy a week later. She died 4 years later.

My brother committed suicide in 2003, hung himself from a tree in the garden.....brought back so many memories . AS you say, so many unanswered questions.

But we carry on....don't we?

fathead001: Grrrrrrrrrr,i farkin hate those Bums on the streets in Sydney that hav signs proclaiming they are hungry they are needy they are homeless, get a FARKIN job and get over it you bums........

crazzzymolly: You would think so wouldn't you kizzy, sometimes I wonder about myself as well

sxc666: I'm not horny Just sexually frustrated

Merry Christmas to you.

aberfoyle: Gee Ralf that would have been really hard for all of you kids & your mother.Reminds me of an indian chap that used to live in Nana Glen. He walked off his own property and up to the school yard where he hung himself in one of the trees there. Bastard, why do it where the kids are going to find him

Also knew a fella that was married and had 5 young sons. He had an affair with a woman two doors up from the family house, and even moved in with her. Totally ignored his kids. Gassed himself in his car one day and left suicide notes to his wife and for each of the boys. Told them how much he hated them. poor kids.

Ralf74: My sister and i found our father, hung to his death in our driveway at 2am in the morning. He had committed suicide. I was 18 at the time and my sister was 17. She totally freaked out to the point that she was almost climbing through the back window of his landcruiser we pulled up in which doesn't actually open. It was pitch black except for the lights of the vehicle pointed straight at him. He was white as a sheet and his tongue was swollen to the point it no longer fit in his mouth, an image that will never leave me. Being her big sister i had to comfort her and take control of the situation. She was driving at the time and i instructed her to head straight to the police, we couldn't stay there for her sake. She was driving all over the road and i was hallucinating but i told her to pull over so i could drive. The police councelled my sister and the police, coroner and myself headed back to the ghastly site to identify the body and to take him down. The police offered to tell my mum and 3 younger siblings but i said that I could manage it. So i went knocking on their door at 5am with the news. Mum was beside herself, she had only left our family home a week beforehand as she was sick of his alcoholism and he was beginning to become violent.

I personally, had to handle all of that which is fine, but what makes me angry is that my sisters and brother have all been affected in their lives because of what he did. My brother in particular has a really hard time because he was only 8 at the time and hardly knew his father. He gets emotional sometimes and wants to seek out dad's side of the family because they all live in Scotland so we don't see them. It just breaks my heart to see him like that, the girls are a little better at hiding the pain but i can still see it in their everyday lives. I at least had a good relationship with my dad, but the rest didn't really know him at all.

redozichick: excellent enjoy

Ralf74: thank you so much everyone for your kind thoughts. That is life i suppose, and we all have our OMG stories that are uncomprehendable to others. It is amazing how resilient we are as human beings and as thet say, what doesn't kill us makes us stronger.

Thank you all again!