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Damn! Just did a search for them and Yep, you're right. No sign of 'em.



I'd be VERY interested to know why they were taken off.

To Abes & Phae, wherever you are.

(Yes, I have voted on the Poll)

need gasket glue, quick!!

why? did you blow a seal?

sit still dammit i got the glue

I think ralf has been glued to that chair already!

farkin about to! i hate seeing people go off half cocked, and i am sure that most putting in their 2 cents worth don't know shit about what has gone down. Hands up who actually reads and keeps up with all the posts, who actually read the offending post before it was pulled, who has any farkin idea at all about what actually happened???

I had a reasonably good relationship with all these girls so i know most (not all) of what went down and i can tell you that there are a lot here that are way off the mark!!!

I am not getting into it, everyone should just get over it and get on with it, ffs.

grabs fire extinguisher to put out flame

I haven't even begun yet, might need to drop me in the deep end of the ocean!

......relax ralf put the air con on and everthing will be alright...relax.....open a bottle of red even......relax

the anchor is too heavy for me to lift

How exactly is it alright, harley?? This poor girl is going to log in tomorrow and see that all the people she has befriended on here have turned their back on her. People she has respected and admired, shared fun times with and the bad have all written her off over some bullshit girl spat. if that is what friends do then fark that, who needs it.

Ralf, Nobody is turning their back on anyone, let alone anyone still in the forum. Isn't that the whole point?

This isn't High School. This is the real (yeah, I know it's cyber, but what is typed is real) world.

We (I definitely include myself here) should be mature enough in mind and spirit to get over all this. Forgive what should be forgiven and forget what should be forgotten.

I love all you guys here and dislike it when schoolyard fights break up.

I may be newish here but it's not hard to suss out. It's a bit like watching a daytime soap - if you've missed a few episodes, you soon catch up!

Like I said, I love all you posters.

No it isn't like that at all and if you don't keep up with the posts, you miss what people have really done and said. Like you said earlier that the girls weren't gone when they were, but you put your opinion in without knowing the facts. This is how this crap snowballs. There is a lot more to what has gone down than a few posts and as most people haven't realised there have also been certain attitudes that have escallated the issue. There have been a number of issues that I have dealt with regarding how others read the posts as well, unnecessary if people read with an open mind rather than just assuming the worst.

I have & still have no issue with the girls , the thread was pulled . as far as I was concerned that should have been the end of it !

I have no idea what's going on, but i do know how to read replies in forums, its a close subject!!!! respect their wishes....

I have to agree its time to put this to rest.

And all those looking at the one person for this, need to go away if they are interested and do a bit more research....I was guilty of thinking a person was in fact a fake profile, which I faced this person with on the phone....................that ended up in my feeling bad as this person has always been a friend to me. I too hope Phae returns as she is a great lady.

I do feel a certain person is being targeted at the moment and the majority of what happened is hear say to people. I contacted someone from here, and was blown away by what this person said, which is why I made a call.

Not all is what it seems, and at the end of the day I think this issue boils down to two people not a forum load of people.

I for one will be standing by a certain person, why? because of a so called childish sisterhood! no.........because I truly believe what she has told me is the truth......................

I think the forum went through a stage where everyone was being put under the microscope and I was guilty of doing that myself.............. And a good friend of mine was one, I feel bad for doing that............like I said everyone not all is what it seems.....

At the end of the day the sad thing is the forum I believe did lose a bloody good member in Phae......
And knocked around another members confidence and character.


My conclusion to all this a certain person is a friend of mine and always will be. I enjoy everyone in the forums our difference of opinions, our different personalities.

And no we are not all going to get along, but getting over it would help.








for gawd sake way too deep for me.

Just to be fare to Jason I to have know idea what has gone on and it is human nature to want to know I have searched and cant find any thing and, I think its not fair that these ppl are having a bit at you , I have stoped spending my precious time on the forums because I feel that I can pop in every couple of day's and thats enough but you do miss out on stuff, but I would rather spend my time being in the real world trying to spend the day's I have left doing something productive and really trying to make a difference in my life, so good luck Jason, this site has changed in the last 6 months it did use to be a calm nice place to spend my time, and I hope it returns that way soon because there is to much rubbish going on and you can be invisible and get lost in it all try not to take to heart what these ppl are saying dont worry about it and move on to something of real life intrest to you.


cgd

If you don't keep up with the posts, you miss what people have really done and said.


I agree with this above statement, I don't keep up with threads and I missed what happened.... But like someone else put its time to move on and hopefully we see the ladies back here again soon..

JMO :-)

hey cowgirl you have a great attitude because you don't read all of the posts so you don't get involved with anything too heavy. There really is a lot to read in here and i am definelty not saying that anyone should read them all, just that if you are going to post on a contentious issue make sure you can back up the facts rather than just point the finger and unnecessarily upset someone.

hmm I was not aware that I was pionting the finger at any one, I did not say any thing to any one about any thing,I was talking to Jason about my experience on here that I know to be the trueth , and this is why I dont pop in any more, so what ever , they are my facts I am talking about,I am not making it up .

ps If I took what you said the wrong way sorry .

cgd ( could not be f*cked with this shit )