Ralf74: OK, I am over it, ignore me, abuse me do whatever the fark u want. I really couldn't give a rats. I am sure I have a really bad 'sistahood' reputation and am clearly known as 'gutless' Fire away, demean me if that is going to feed your pathetic little vendetta against the world. Post my email if you wish to expose me for the real bitch that i am, i am sure everyone is curious anyway!
This is what i was trying to avoid by leaving but it is your call.
I'm sure that you tell your children not to get mixed up with the wrong crowd... but that's exactly what you've gone and done yourself.
The sistahood will turn on you at the drop of a hat. They've done it before and undoubtedly they will do it again... but you're probably the type of person who'll have to find out for yourself the hard way.
All this had nothing to do with you, yet you found a need to stick your beak in. Your friend's name is mud and by defending her you're sullying your own name.