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Kizzy,

You mentioned that you will be talking to one of the four soon. If its one of the suspected infidels (hee hee) perhaps you should just come straight out and say it.

Tell em you saw em and that they looked pretty tight. See what they say. It truly is a difficult one, and you clearly are uncomfortable with what you saw, and the intimacy it implied.

I'll be honest, I dont think that I would have ever thanked anyone who'd told me my ex was having an affair, but in my heart, I wish that the people who knew had told me.

Somehow I think that confronting one or both of the players might be the way to go. Get it confirmed before sharing any information with the unknowing spouses.

hey kizz. dont get all bunched up over this, it may be they are just really good friends, or just had a laugh and a touchy moment about a really good joke. who knows, but now you have seen it you can be the super sleuth and watch them a little more closely. but be careful, you are right sometimes the messenger ends up worse off. tread carefully.

Okm the plot thickens ....

wife of the man I saw in sydney called in late yesterday for a coffee chat yadda yadda anyway I felt so uncomfortable anyway didnt say anything but she said her hubby was away last weekend on business thing & thet they werre having a few problems he was being a bit of a prick latley seems to have alot of stress been edgy I musta went pale casuse she said are you ok I saidd i was feelin a bit off colour which because of my illness wasnt a fib so she didnt hang about but invited me for lunch on the weekend. I think Ill have to say something I felt like i was lying to her sayiong nothing dayum !!! The other couple seem so happy all the time goes to show behind closed doors anyway its obvious now he wasnt away working & that his wife is unaware not just swinging besides Ide know they wouldf invite me if they were lol shiiiitttt dont like this, Might have to confront the ones I saw I think .
Lunch saturday should be interesting....
Not
see I already feel like making an excuse not to go .
Kizzy

got nothing

Hi Paul Me either...

Me three.

Hi Kizzy if was me I would confront the husband to see his response before going to lunch that way you maybe more comfortable having lunch with the wife, this might also force the husband to come clean with his wife.
Regards
Wayne.

hey dawgs

How they hangin dude..

Invite both couples for lunch and then just let it all hang!

hear no evil see no evil speak no evil

hard one but in the end it is really none of your business and it could backfire on you

the messenger is usually the one who gets shot

yeah look I have agonized over it since it happened , I didnt go yeasterday because I simply didnt want to be put in that situation & feel uncomfortable My opinion of the woman & man involved has changed alot but end of the day it is their lives . Lies & secrets have a way of surfacing. I am just going to leave it . when it all comes out I will be there for my friends
thats it
I dont feel I can divulge what ive seen It may be a passing thing just a fling & the next 30 yrs bliss for them so who am I to wreak that sometimes what we never know wont really hurt so I am out of it
I will never eva say I knew anything
My friendships with the 2 will be altered forever but that is inevitable given the circumstanses ..
either way it will never be the same This way it is just a personal thing not involving anyone but me
so be it
Kizzy

Its a hard one Kizzy cause when it does all come out which it will..
I bet my wages the people involved will learn that you knew and that will hurt the other paries feelings as well!
What usually happens the focus is turned from their partners doing the dirty to my mate never said a word!
Your the meat in the sandwich Im afrid

I'd be zipping my lips personally.

MYOFB

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MYOFB is exactly what ive done I saw them all thru the week said nothing but now i know I saw it so clear its only a matter of time before the shit hits the fan . I will be suprised shocked & supportive when it does , If it stops then Ill be happy they made the right call .
If they do find out later ill just say I wasnt in a position to say anything.
Thx for all your advise but ide like to let this thread die so its buried in the archives eventually
Kizzy
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OMG weeel the shit hit the pervebial fan this arvo had my girlfriend in tears just now they got sprung big time ....she was onto him & followed him ...not kool Ive been supportive & Naieve I am shultzz I know nothing... i knew last time i saw them all it was only a matter of time it was sooooo obvious but maybe that was because i had my own thoughts

Anyway not sure where its all gonna go but im glad i kept quiet.She is devoed but at the same time seems relieved to know I still am not 100% sure i did the right thing but at least i am here for her now

Lick me toes or im dobbin..

can i paint them in chocolate first????