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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:47 PM CST : Doing it distance
Ok after some feed back here guys , Ive been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks we are AMAZING anyway weve been tight he lives 3 hrs away so its been a weekend / midweek visit phone chat text etc etc etcthang anyway we spent last weekens having a absolute blast ,
He has a great job & this week earned a promotion which will give him an extra 50 thou plus ayear soooo to good to pass The thing is he has to go 11 hrs away for 3 months then not sure whats after that.
He has asked me to hang wityhhim & hey i wanna the thing is ther is no real solid conclusion as to where he will be after the 12 weeks .Also he will be doing big days like 12 hrs the odd day off but not many
he has to fly out tommorrow ...

blues
I am soooo gonna miss him
Ive never done a distance thing Ive avioded it because i am not sure i can survive without the intimacy /touch cuddles but hey this guy is da bomb I am smitten we bothare .
any advise greatly appriciated on how to cope
Kizzy
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stranger_knockin cdg, Auckland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:53 PM CST : Doing it distance
i think u should visit him , when ever .. where ever he is ... and ..never miss precious time... either its of 1 hr or 100 hrs ... u will always those time in ur life and life is too short as well ,,, so what ever u got .. where u got ,,, just get it !!
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:56 PM CST : Doing it distance
kizzy27: Ok after some feed back here guys , Ive been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks we are AMAZING anyway weve been tight he lives 3 hrs away so its been a weekend / midweek visit phone chat text etc etc etcthang anyway we spent last weekens having a absolute blast ,
He has a great job & this week earned a promotion which will give him an extra 50 thou plus ayear soooo to good to pass The thing is he has to go 11 hrs away for 3 months then not sure whats after that.
He has asked me to hang wityhhim & hey i wanna the thing is ther is no real solid conclusion as to where he will be after the 12 weeks .Also he will be doing big days like 12 hrs the odd day off but not many
he has to fly out tommorrow ...


I am soooo gonna miss him
Ive never done a distance thing Ive avioded it because i am not sure i can survive without the intimacy /touch cuddles but hey this guy is da bomb I am smitten we bothare .
any advise greatly appriciated on how to cope
Kizzy


hey love kiss hug teddybear

i wish i could comment but i am abit lost myself as i have fallen for someone that is far distant and he don't even know it lmao rolling on the floor laughing

sorry hug
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:56 PM CST : Doing it distance
stranger_knockin: i think u should visit him , when ever .. where ever he is ... and ..never miss precious time... either its of 1 hr or 100 hrs ... u will always those time in ur life and life is too short as well ,,, so what ever u got .. where u got ,,, just get it !!



awwww well knocked .. i mean well said laugh
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:57 PM CST : Doing it distance
stranger_knockin: i think u should visit him , when ever .. where ever he is ... and ..never miss precious time... either its of 1 hr or 100 hrs ... u will always those time in ur life and life is too short as well ,,, so what ever u got .. where u got ,,, just get it !!

I could fly out once a month for a day or two with a lot of juggling kids work etc ...but its not impossible
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 9:58 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart: hey love

i wish i could comment but i am abit lost myself as i have fallen for someone that is far distant and he don't even know it lmao

sorry



then you should tell him A xxxxxheart wings
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:01 PM CST : Doing it distance
kizzy27: then you should tell him A xxxxx


not easy as it was hard enough tryna get him to add my MSN moping

A xxx bouquet
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stranger_knockin cdg, Auckland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:13 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart: not easy as it was hard enough tryna get him to add my MSN

A xxx


if u cant add him on msn , then why not u try in old fashion love letter ..... or may a sweet call ... technology may be new ,,but ideas are always old ... and they work as well !!
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stranger_knockin cdg, Auckland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:14 PM CST : Doing it distance
kizzy27: I could fly out once a month for a day or two with a lot of juggling kids work etc ...but its not impossible


thats nice !! thats way .. where is a will there is a way !! madam ........ its nice to see woman also think like that way !!
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:18 PM CST : Doing it distance
stranger_knockin: if u cant add him on msn , then why not u try in old fashion love letter ..... or may a sweet call ... technology may be new ,,but ideas are always old ... and they work as well !!


can i slap you really HARD in the face just this once??????

he does NOT know i have feelings for him .. never mind this is kizzy's thread .. good luck for the upcoming answers kizzy hug
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Twodawgz melbourne, Victoria Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:22 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart: hey love

i wish i could comment but i am abit lost myself as i have fallen for someone that is far distant and he don't even know it lmao

sorry



Awwww A didnt know you felt like so..hug laugh
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:23 PM CST : Doing it distance
Twodawgz: Awwww A didnt know you felt like so..


awwwww hey C hug teddybear kiss

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stranger_knockin cdg, Auckland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:24 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart: can i slap you really HARD in the face just this once??????

he does NOT know i have feelings for him .. never mind this is kizzy's thread .. good luck for the upcoming answers kizzy


can i slap you back really HARD in the face just this once ?????
ha ha ha ...

stupid ,,, i am saying if he dont know why not u just tell me ... why are u stopping urself and just try to contact anyhow ...atleast u know anything about him !! aren't you ?

anyways kizzy sorry about my and inkedheart discussion in b/w !!
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:27 PM CST : Doing it distance
stranger_knockin: can i slap you back really HARD in the face just this once ?????
ha ha ha ...

stupid ,,, i am saying if he dont know why not u just tell me ... why are u stopping urself and just try to contact anyhow ...atleast u know anything about him !! aren't you ?

anyways kizzy sorry about my and inkedheart discussion in b/w !!



yeah STUPID is the perfect word ...

why the hell shall i tell you if i can't tell him?? DUH!!!!!
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stranger_knockin cdg, Auckland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:42 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart:
stranger_knockin: can i slap you back really HARD in the face just this once ?????
ha ha ha ...

stupid ,,, i am saying if he dont know why not u just tell me ... why are u stopping urself and just try to contact anyhow ...atleast u know anything about him !! aren't you ?




yeah STUPID is the perfect word ...

why the hell shall i tell you if i can't tell him?? DUH!!!!!



Sorry and appolozise !! i want to say that

" if he dont know why not u just tell him " .... sorry !!
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kizzy27 Nowra, New South Wales Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:48 PM CST : Doing it distance
InkedHeart: yeah STUPID is the perfect word ...

why the hell shall i tell you if i can't tell him?? DUH!!!!!


So maybe the two discussions can be entwined I mean its about being open aout feelings It was really hard to say hey I have feelings for you & I dont want to stop feeling them because you are going away ...How do you feel ? But hey I am so glad I did the answer I got was amazing ( heart beatng faster} Look do i know if this si gonna work no I dont But i gotta be honest how I feel & so do you There is no point wondering either he is into you or he isnt ...ask
If it all turns to shit well at least your not wasting your heart on someone who doesnt feel it
but hey what if he is sitting their thinking the exact same thing .... ask
Kizzy

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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 10:55 PM CST : Doing it distance
kizzy27: So maybe the two discussions can be entwined I mean its about being open aout feelings It was really hard to say hey I have feelings for you & I dont want to stop feeling them because you are going away ...How do you feel ? But hey I am so glad I did the answer I got was amazing ( heart beatng faster} Look do i know if this si gonna work no I dont But i gotta be honest how I feel & so do you There is no point wondering either he is into you or he isnt ...ask
If it all turns to shit well at least your not wasting your heart on someone who doesnt feel it
but hey what if he is sitting their thinking the exact same thing .... ask
Kizzy


been tryna read his reactions but it changes moping uh oh
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Ralf74 Bacchus Marsh, Victoria Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 11:14 PM CST : Doing it distance
Good luck Kizzy, I have no answers, just more questions. I am in the same boat and it sucks..........what to do? The advice i have been given is to follow my heart. It sounds great but i don't think i have ever made a decision based on my feelings, i rationalise everything to death first! roll eyes laugh

I'll be tuned in to find out what you do. Again - good luck! cool
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InkedHeart Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Wed Feb 4, 2009 11:18 PM CST : Doing it distance
Ralf74: Good luck Kizzy, I have no answers, just more questions. I am in the same boat and it sucks..........what to do? The advice i have been given is to follow my heart. It sounds great but i don't think i have ever made a decision based on my feelings, i rationalise everything to death first!

I'll be tuned in to find out what you do. Again - good luck!


Yeah i know that feeling hug
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kawai Cowes, Victoria Australia
Wed Feb 4, 2009 11:22 PM CST : Doing it distance
I'm at a loss myself on this one. I live a fair way from everyone I've dated from this site, and its just never worked out. I was trying to make a real effort with the most recent one, but then he decided the distance was too much. In my case it obviously wasn't meant to be, sounds like your case is different. You are both obviously smitten. My advice would be to go with the flow. Keep in touch whenever you can, and see each other whenever you can. I hope it all works out for you. teddybear
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