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Thanks Kiiwii

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I think at this earlier stage Kizzy, it is going to prove very hard.

Early in a Relationship is important time getting too know each other on a personal level.

I suppose all I can advise is, take it slow, make no promises and take each day as it comes.

If you don't give it at least a try, you will always be wondering what if.

Yeah It is early but we both are happy to give it a whirl we will take it slow day by day if it turns out too difficult oh well nothing ventured thing is he is so worth it z7 ,,,so am I
Kizzy

Then go for it.

It's hard enough to make local relationships work, but having miles, States, and sometimes even an ocean between you makes it even more difficult, so fark knows maybe follow your heart and see where it takes you..

I think this sums it up. This was my thought as I was reading all the replies on your post kizzy.

You've got to at least give it a go....see how things pan out. If you don't, then you may end up regretting not having given it a try....if it doesn't work, at least you will know you both gave it your best shot at trying to make it work, with no regrets...

and once again, I've babbled into something that I really can't make sense of....hope it does to you !

Its just so rare to find someone who you connect with so totally like we seem to be doing but as Tina sid early days for sure .
my heart says farrrrrkkkkkkkkkkkkkk yeahhhhhhhhhh so does my head. If he comes back to canberra things bekool I can so do weekends i am busy all week anyway for now in 2 yrs I can go wher eeva so things are really only in limbo for now .
thanks guys its so helping bouncing this off yas & kity your spot on to I would so always wonder
Kizzy

I'd suggest some separation counseling and a new vibrator.

I'd suggest some separation counseling and a new vibrator.

::laugh:

Now thats what Im Talkin about !!!!!!!!!!

go with your heart I say

I had a long distance one once.. I lived in brissy.. he lived in Geelong .. it lasted about 12 months all up... obviously it didnt work! but the reasons why.. were it was a rebound relationship for both of us.. his wife had dumped him and I had something happen (not going into it) .. lots of trust issues.. he was a liar (and lied about stupid dumb shit as well as bigger stuff .. what a wanker HATE liars when I met him he moaned and groaned about how his wife just one day said she didn't love him anymore and said she was leaving.. and how he had no idea she was even thinking that way.. and yep.. I believed him!!! 10 months into it..I am at his place while he was was at work.. before he left I said.. where is your vac.. ill do your carpets while your not here.. give me something to do.. he told me where it was.. I said.. cool.. i'll move all your furniture and do a real good job.. he said.. cool thanks.. goes off to work.. I get the vac out.. move the lounge chair to vac under it.. and there is this pile of papers .. I picked them up to move them and saw the top one was a letter from his wife.. and yep.. curiosity got the better of me.. I read it!!.. in the letter she says how devastated she was to find out he had been having an affair and she can never forget when he told her he had met someone on the net (not me haha it was before my time!) and that he loved this woman and he was leaving her (his wife) for this woman .. I couldn't stop reading it then.. I had to know!.. I felt like I had been smacked in the head! I'm reading it thinking.. you lying f*cking b*stard!!!! you fooled me big time you prick!!

I never loved him.. but the sex was awesome!! first man I had ever met who could and wanted to have sex 10-15 times a day!! gotta love that then i found out what he was really like and I couldn't stand him touching me

the thing is.. I wouldn't have judged him at all for what had happened in his life before me.. everyone has reasons for doing what they do .. its not my place to say whether it was right or wrong.. BUT.. he KNEW that.. but he also knew I despised liars .. yet he chose to lie to me.. so it was never meant to be...
so it was goodbye wanker!

so if you trust and love each other.. there is no reason it can't work for awhile.. but eventually one of you is going to have to move near the other one.. it wont work long distance for ever !

well that's my opinion anyway

distance really sucks ..................... that's all i have sorry,



oh but i guess if you want it to work you'll find a way regardless

Moral of the story; don't clean the bastar@'s place for him.

Yeah that would be my major concern

Hi

If you don't try it you won't know if you can or cannot do it...

well yeah I guess so.. but then..

if I hadnt.. I would not have found out what a dipstick he was when I did

I was meant to vacuum his damn carpet so I would find that letter!!