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Hi marki, it is connected with the mind. And how one views oneself. It can be quite hard to be love for a person with low self esteem, draining and debillitating with the constant need to be reassured that they are loved.

When someone needs constant attention it is either low self-esteem, or contrarily, a controlling nature. For example: getting an irate reaction because you haven't answered an sms within the time they EXPECT you to (irrespective of your reason for taking time to do so, and having to explain yourself all the time!).

BOTH are very draining, and don't augur well for a mature relationship.

The problem with low self-esteem people is that they have low self-esteem! (Nothing that a few million bucks won't rectify!)

That made me laugh...

Yes is is kinda strange...

If i say: Ill call you tomorrow. Answer is: Really?You will?
or I like.Really?You do?



And that is happening every day,every time i say that and after lil conversation you think its ok everything is clear and next time is same .I mean i dont mind it,i like to give attention and talk about it but really makes me wonder does that have next level of behavior and insecurity

Men have low self esteem co u girls always laugh at our peckers

Oh marki, only you will know what you can put up with and how much you can cope with. I could not deal with it, I know we all have our times when we need reassurance, I certainly do but on a daily basis, all the time, it would be something where my patience would wear very thin...

Yes i know what you mean.I know that ill end up that when my patience will be over but for now ill give a chance,until starts anoying me...

Low self esteem Marki cannot be fixed by constant reassuring from a partner. Go easy eh?

What means- Go easy ?

Don't tie yourself up in knots with worry about it, is what it means from my perspective. Ja?