kidatheart: .
I have a different perspective than most might, after knowing many exotic dancers, and even living with a couple as a room mates on two occasions in my youth. I've seen the business from all angles, and it's not always pretty, so that has a bit to do with not going.
As for "grown up men", there's a couple of guys in their 30's here still doing it, but not a single hair other than on their head. They're just trying to appease the crowd that goes, and make a living. A good living at that.
Ja, know what you mean. I knew a stripper in SA, female .. pretty girl ... but SO drugged up to go do her show. Was a bit sad actually, knowing her. After her shows, she`d count her money .. take out a careful 10%, put it in an envelope and on the way home push it under a church door! She said "her type" could not go to church, but they could probably use some money.
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The hairless wonders ....WHY do these guys always think that women enjoy their shaved bodies?
My friend here, on her birthday we all went to a local place ... there was a male stripper there that night .. and her daughter paid for him to do a lap dance for her mom .... HAAAAAhahahaaa..... Mother was NOT impressed! She said his shaved body was all prickly! She kept shrieking and pulling her hands away when this short little guy in G-string and giant flag pulled her arms around him ... yugh! She still shudders when recalling that event!
Generally, I think, a nice "real man" type, tall, good looking, with some dignity, dressed in normal clothes (not fishnet mini Tshirt and Gstring! and extra height in his shoes!) all his body hair intact ...... just has to do some manly-like dancing (NOT lap dancing!) ... get the ladies to dance with him .. and okay, do some over-the-top moves ......
What do the girls here think of that idea...? Shall I become a recruiter of Manly Dancers for Ladies Nights?
Oops one problem ... I live in Switzerland! A manly swiss dancer?