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even it may not seem obvious...yes i am.......

kalispera
if you are shy ?...
then all the viewers of this thread are even more shy
because they even did not dare to reply ...

what viewers???? saw anyone???thank god you exist!!!

its clearly saying 22 viewers...
or ... did you do this all by yourself

im so shy i even blush when i look in the mirror

Shy.... I don't think so
Reserved - yes, definitely

(Hello, I just wandered over from the Canadian Forums....I'm leaving now... ciao)

Roxanne

In Europe not usually, outside of Europe, yes, terribly so.(I'm including all of South America as "European" , at least on a cultural basis)

I can be shy, but I don't think anyone would ever notice.

It is a case of putting on a smile head up and make the most of any situation.

As a child I was chronically shy and at times I still am, not to such an extent, but I've learnt to overcome it. It's really about confidence therefore if you have confidence in yourself then shyness dissipates. It's actually quite an endearing characteristic in my opinion.

I found great ways to overcome shyness...

1) Write down three times when you felt really relaxed. Really think back to these times and exactly how that felt. Where in your body did you feel it? How was your body language? Act this way. You will realize that you start to feel relaxed in doing this. Do the same for confident, excited, etc.

2) Memorize jokes or conversational pieces to initiate stimulating conversation. Check out howstuffworks.com for interesting topics. View social interaction as a game where the goal is to make someone smile or a social experiment where these people are your guinea pigs and you learn from experimenting on them. This is fun, and takes away the burden of trying to impress or be accepted.

3) Visualise the person you want to be. How does she stand/talk/walk/look? Take aggressive steps towards being that person and do it for yourself and nobody else!

shy? mmm yep! at the first then I can talk to much.

im shy realy shy honest

hi, very good advice ! I use something like this in my work with myself and another people...

Look what I dug out of past threads! Wedy is shy..... REALY?
This is a nice subject... who wants to keep it going?

I'm also a shy person.... I just bluff I'm not, and no-one notices the difference. Actually no-one even notices me. I sort of blend into the background.

Me shy!!! no not at all

I'm sooooooooo shy I dare'nt reply to this in case everybody look's at me...!!

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Count me in, but do you guys recognise that with me??

another strange one....

tried to express, 'count me in' in a software language ;-)
Nice meeting you smoky :-)

you still didn't ask the question ::: ARE YOU SHY ???