Do you want Rusty back here in the forums?

created by: Nina3 | May 6, 3:07 PM CST
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Do you want Rusty back here in the forums?

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CuspofMagic
space, Mecklenburg-West Pomerania Germany
Posted: May 6, 2008, 9:21 PM CST
Nina3 wrote:
Have you noticed anyone missing from our EU Forum postings recently?

Rusty, our dear Rusty, has been told off, shut off from the forums and is currently sitting in the corner with a dunce cap on his head for misbehaving... He once again couldn't stop himself from speaking his mind (which most people round these parts do - that is after all what this place is for), but in this instance overstepped the boundary a bit.

We all know the CS rules, and are to abide by them of course. There are many shrewd, nasty comments and "name calling" that goes on here on the different forums, and not everything gets caught. In this instance one of our most admired and beloved posters made a mistake, and will be greatly missed. I would even go so far as to say that the loss of his postings from now on will have a more detramental effect on this community than the offence his mistake made (Although I do understand the sentiments of the person affected, and I fully understand that you need to keep a nice tone on these forums, but in this case it seems the punishment far outweighs the crime.)

What do you think?


--- Yes yay





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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 12:11 AM CST
breezee wrote:
Yikes,Elley!!


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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 12:13 AM CST
FlowerOfTheSun wrote:
Listen here young man!!!! You apologise right now to our lovely D/Fly for that VERY BAD taste joke!!!!!


really?

don't worry if it is....

I missed it !rolling on the floor laughing

moping my english is gone... it's gonemoping crying now I shall have to write in russianmoping





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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 12:15 AM CST
Elley wrote:
BTW although the joke was part of a conversation with the lovely Dragonfly it was in no way whatsoever a reflection of how I feel towards her. For what it,s worth I think she,s lovely. So there you go. Sorry again DF.It was not directed at her, I was joking with her and the comment was more a reflection of my sad desperation for some...ahem...contact in general.



rolling on the floor laughing hug I didn't take that badly! hahah so not to worry. hug cheers





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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 12:18 AM CST
FlowerOfTheSun wrote:
May be I read it wrong!!! When I read it, I mistakenly understood the "any port in a storm" to be addressed to our lovely lady

Glad it's all cleared out now!!

Have a proper bunch of flowers!!!


well, maybe it pays that my english goes down the drain sometimes,

what I read there was that for him women mean trouble (women in general, in relationships) and that the same applies the other way round, that's why the reference of the storm. I think?confused I didn't see a joke, I saw sadness.dunno





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Elley
Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 5:10 AM CST
dragonfly88 wrote:
well, maybe it pays that my english goes down the drain sometimes,

what I read there was that for him women mean trouble (women in general, in relationships) and that the same applies the other way round, that's why the reference of the storm. I think? I didn't see a joke, I saw sadness.


lips

BTW I really didn,t mind the elley thread, I thought it was hilarious to be honest. And I also think that any man who gets DF will be a very lucky man indeed.comfort lips





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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 5:27 AM CST
Elley wrote:
BTW I really didn,t mind the elley thread, I thought it was hilarious to be honest. And I also think that any man who gets DF will be a very lucky man indeed.




rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


I need a mad man by the looks of it!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

maybe I shouldn't ask too loud, just in case my angel hears me!

whisper:::: angel alright, angel, just parking for now







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Elley
Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 5:39 AM CST
dragonfly88 wrote:
I need a mad man by the looks of it!

maybe I shouldn't ask too loud, just in case my angel hears me!

whisper:::: alright, angel, just parking for now


Take your pick, we,re all mad as hatters round here, well at least I am.laugh





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dragonfly88
valencia, Valenciana Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 5:42 AM CST
Elley wrote:
Take your pick, we,re all mad as hatters round here, well at least I am.


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


I wish it were easy..

well, I wish and so does everyone else.....

alright,

I'll have you all,

put you all in a little box and I only take you out if you feed me chocolaterolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing





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Elley
Cadiz, Andalucia Spain
Posted: May 7, 2008, 5:43 AM CST
dragonfly88 wrote:
I wish it were easy..

well, I wish and so does everyone else.....

alright,

I'll have you all,

put you all in a little box and I only take you out if you feed me chocolate


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing wave wave wave wave gottago to work,catch you later, put me back in the box.laugh





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Conrad73
Lonesome Town Zurich , Zrich Switzerland
Posted: May 7, 2008, 9:25 AM CST
Elley wrote:
Take your pick, we,re all mad as hatters round here, well at least I am.
Got to lay off that Canned Tuna.
Mercury=Mercury-Poisoning=Madhatterprofessor rolling on the floor laughing wave





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smoky
Unterland, Zrich Switzerland
Posted: May 7, 2008, 2:26 PM CST
Nina3 wrote:
Have you noticed anyone missing from our EU Forum postings recently?

Rusty, our dear Rusty, has been told off, shut off from the forums and is currently sitting in the corner with a dunce cap on his head for misbehaving... He once again couldn't stop himself from speaking his mind (which most people round these parts do - that is after all what this place is for), but in this instance overstepped the boundary a bit.

We all know the CS rules, and are to abide by them of course. There are many shrewd, nasty comments and "name calling" that goes on here on the different forums, and not everything gets caught. In this instance one of our most admired and beloved posters made a mistake, and will be greatly missed. I would even go so far as to say that the loss of his postings from now on will have a more detramental effect on this community than the offence his mistake made (Although I do understand the sentiments of the person affected, and I fully understand that you need to keep a nice tone on these forums, but in this case it seems the punishment far outweighs the crime.)

What do you think?


I voted "Yes, if he behaves himself". I have always enjoyed Rustys writings - but lately he seemed to go rather strange and whacko?!

One is always allowed to voice an opinion, but to get personally insulting is a no-no - seems he overdid himself this time? As a person with a good command of the english language there is no excuse for him. I missed the repartè that was apparently responsible for his banning ... One has to understand that the CS site is and can be held responsible for allowing members to defame one another - hence the rules.

In the past very active and interesting members have been banned, for much less blatant language use.

Personally, I have reported about 4 of his postings where he has insulted me personally, and one post that attempted to defame me. One has to remember that on this site we are dealing with a vast network of people from all walks of life ... and not everyone just smiles and takes anyones shitty language - The CS Site is responsible for our behaviour - they are the guys on the firing line.






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Nina3
(Stockholm, Sweden +) , Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Posted: May 8, 2008, 7:38 AM CST
smoky wrote:
I voted "Yes, if he behaves himself". I have always enjoyed Rustys writings - but lately he seemed to go rather strange and whacko?!

One is always allowed to voice an opinion, but to get personally insulting is a no-no - seems he overdid himself this time? As a person with a good command of the english language there is no excuse for him. I missed the repartè that was apparently responsible for his banning ... One has to understand that the CS site is and can be held responsible for allowing members to defame one another - hence the rules.

In the past very active and interesting members have been banned, for much less blatant language use.

Personally, I have reported about 4 of his postings where he has insulted me personally, and one post that attempted to defame me. One has to remember that on this site we are dealing with a vast network of people from all walks of life ... and not everyone just smiles and takes anyones shitty language - The CS Site is responsible for our behaviour - they are the guys on the firing line.




I absolutely agree - personal insults should be unacceptable on any public site; there are lots of civilized ways of discussing topics and voicing different, and even opposing, opinions.

And naturally, since they are ulitmately responsible for all content on their site, the CS staff have the last say as to what can be posted.

On the other hand, who decides what constitutes an insult?

- The insulted person? As I mentioned on another thread, different people are insulted by different things.

- The other people on the forum? In the end, it has to be the CS staff, in my opinion.

- Name-calling? Some people are offended by the slightest thing, and some people take it as a joke (which it might even have been intended as), and some people just shrug it off, or ignore it. Different strokes for different folks.

If you take a look at all the different threads on the different forums, you'll see many, many ugly and nasty postings, that remain untouched. And there are people who cunningly disguise their insults in such a way that many people don't notice them. Does this make the insults acceptable?

The way I see it, in such an international and multi-cultural place as this site, the only reasonable thing to expect is for everyone to use some common sense, be as polite as they can and to listen to each other. If problems arise, then the CS staff can be contacted, and they will have the last say.

wine





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Jacko50
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: May 8, 2008, 7:41 AM CST
Nina3 wrote:
I absolutely agree - personal insults should be unacceptable on any public site; there are lots of civilized ways of discussing topics and voicing different, and even opposing, opinions.

And naturally, since they are ulitmately responsible for all content on their site, the CS staff have the last say as to what can be posted.

On the other hand, who decides what constitutes an insult?

- The insulted person? As I mentioned on another thread, different people are insulted by different things.

- The other people on the forum? In the end, it has to be the CS staff, in my opinion.

- Name-calling? Some people are offended by the slightest thing, and some people take it as a joke (which it might even have been intended as), and some people just shrug it off, or ignore it. Different strokes for different folks.

If you take a look at all the different threads on the different forums, you'll see many, many ugly and nasty postings, that remain untouched. And there are people who cunningly disguise their insults in such a way that many people don't notice them. Does this make the insults acceptable?

The way I see it, in such an international and multi-cultural place as this site, the only reasonable thing to expect is for everyone to use some common sense, be as polite as they can and to listen to each other. If problems arise, then the CS staff can be contacted, and they will have the last say.
It would appear to be the case that CS staff have had the last saylaugh





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Posted: May 8, 2008, 8:13 AM CST
Weakest link [am I repeating myself?], get rid of competitors by any means.

Guys, be careful, otherwise we wont have any choice here :D

Kisses, hugs, coffees...





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smoky
Unterland, Zrich Switzerland
Posted: May 8, 2008, 10:49 AM CST
Marivanna_the_II wrote:
Weakest link [am I repeating myself?], get rid of competitors by any means.
Guys, be careful, otherwise we wont have any choice here :D

Kisses, hugs, coffees...


That does seem to be one of things he was also good at....... Is there a psychological name for a guy who needs to be the only rooster in the henhouse?wink





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Jacko50
Qawra, Majjistral Malta
Posted: May 8, 2008, 10:54 AM CST
Marivanna_the_II wrote:
Weakest link [am I repeating myself?], get rid of competitors by any means.

Guys, be careful, otherwise we wont have any choice here :D

Kisses, hugs, coffees...
I'm sure Marivanna you will never be short of choicehug





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Nina3
(Stockholm, Sweden +) , Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Posted: May 8, 2008, 10:59 AM CST
smoky wrote:
That does seem to be one of things he was also good at....... Is there a psychological name for a guy who needs to be the only rooster in the henhouse?



There seems to be some confusion as to who got rid of whom here...

dunno cool





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Nina3
(Stockholm, Sweden +) , Brussels (Bruxelles) Belgium
Posted: May 8, 2008, 11:03 AM CST
Perhaps it's more fair, if we cannot say something nice about someone who is not able to be here to reply and "defend" themselves, to not say anything at all?


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breezee
athens, Attica Greece
Posted: May 8, 2008, 11:04 AM CST
Marivanna_the_II wrote:
Weakest link [am I repeating myself?], get rid of competitors by any means.

Guys, be careful, otherwise we wont have any choice here :D

Kisses, hugs, coffees...

Marivanna, you could probably repeat yourself to the end of the world and it would still be too cryptic for the likes of me to understand dunno sigh

I was just looking at the results of the poll and trying to imagine how RK might be feeling....

Obviously, he's f..cked up and I'm sure I don't know the half of it (not even more than a very small fraction, actually), but it seems to me the people on the receiving end of his bad behaviour have some support between them dunno and rightly so, I'm sure......
It seems he's got way out of line and this is about consequences, obviously.......

I don't actually know what I'm trying to say.
But this feels bad to me.
I'm imagining RK, just another stupid human being, dejected.....
None of us are feeling dejected by the rest.
I'm starting not to like this......
Sorry.sad flower





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