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Love will tear us apart---Joy Division

There, there...

Aaaaawwwww thanks Nina.How ya doin babe?

All well over here, thanks Elley - getting to be that time of night though... How's the Costa this evening?

Pretty wierd actually Nina, sort of hot and cold at the same time. This time of year we get the levante, quite a hot wind which can blow through a cold day. Me ? I,m always hot, never cold.

I figured as much! And as far as the weather - we have the same weirdness here now... oh, well.

I've just been reading this thread and I just wanted to pop in to say....

ENOUGH ALREADY!!!

Love is:
patient
kind
it does not envy
it does not boast
it is not rude
it is not SELF-SEEKING!!
it is not easily angered
it keeps no record of wrongs
it does not delight in evil
it rejoices in the truth
it always protects
always trusts
always hopes
always perseveres...

.... according to Paul (who I never really liked, but still..) in the Good Book!!!

THIS is love.
What you are talking about is "Eros" or Lust / Willy Love...

Noone promises stuff like this in Willy Love and so get over yourselves, get yourselves sorted and know the difference!!

Enjoy all the Willy Love you can get but don't complain when it goes sour or gets a little vicious!!
OR...
Learn to love and discern people that will love you.

What time of night, Nina?

The problem is that hot cold hot cold hot is a breeding ground for all sorts of virus,s. Here you can lose your voice (a blessing when it comes to some people )and feel otherwise great.

The I've-been-up-too-late-again-and-am-yawning-my-jaw-off time, Anctus!

Very insightful! Thanks, Breezee!

Yeah, I know what you mean.

Actually, I think it,s a little more complicated than this. Try this...

I love you so much and it is so,so scarey,and I really wish I didn,t love you quite so much cause I know that that to love you so much makes me vulnerable to you and your whims and for sure you,re gonna hurt me and now thinking about that I hate you for the hurt that you are gonna do to me, you are going to kill me with my love for you and so maybe I should try to love you less yes that,s more healthy in fact I have decided now that in reality I hate you as strongly as I loved you cause you are the bastard that is going to kill me but only if I don,t kill you first, yes that,s it, I,ll hurt you first, that,ll teach you not to mess around with me and my feelings, to make me love you so,so much that in fact I hate you. By the way, did I tell you I love you ?

Hi Nina and Elley!!

I didn't really see you guys before I posted....
Am in a weird way actually....
Sorry

Hey Breezee, we,re cool,ok, no harm done.Nice to see you.

That os Not love, Elley!!

Love always trusts and hopes!!

How you goin', anyway...?

Love is whatever you want it to be.

Doing fine.Off out. Catch you later. Be good.

Without wishing to sound offensive, stupidy trusts and hopes ( I was that man). Love ? Love is so self obsessed it don,t give a shit. Ultimately love is as destructive as it is constructive. JMO

Ooohh just saw it Smoky, you should move to US and be on "Last comic standing"...you're better than Kathy Griffin!! in my OP