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is it ok in this modern era for a lady to invite a man on a date, or should the man do the asking?

I want the man to be the man in the relationship. It's not just about tradition or typical gender roles. It's about wanting a man who is confident enough to take the risk and make the first move.....

We been taking those risks all our bloody lives and suffered multiple kicks in the knackers so to speak.So if you ladies want equality get on with it, or is it just in the good things you want equality ? " We,ll have the shine, you can keep the shit"

For me it is not ok at all.Man should be a man and invite the lady.

Why ?

Cause that way you never ever have to suffer rejection. Well some of us men have very fragile egos and in a modern world I cannot see why you should retain the exclusive power to attract and reject at will.

For many decades you have successfully lobbied for equal rights and although there are still a great many inequalities re womens rights it is grossly unfair not to extend the hand of equality in our direction a little. Or is it really the case, as I have stated above, that you only want equal rights to the good things in life. The sad fact of the matter is that lots of progressive women want to hold on to their female power base whilst making inroads into the male one.

Because that is my way of thinking.Bad or not, right or not.I've never invited a man on a date, would never do it.I think so.

ok, that,s fine, you don,t invite me and I won,t invite you,done.

Very funny!

I never wanted any equality,dear!

Well fck me stupid with a thorny branch....a beautiful woman who DOES NOT WANT EQUALITY !!!!!!

I can see the invites rolling in for you right here and now.

Actually, I think there,s a lot to be said for the opinion that things are worse for women with equal rights than without. You never had it so good and just didn,t realise it, too much green eye envy led you all astray. And now I done gone found me a traditional woman who likes to be......
























a woman !

"Want the man to be a man", "it's not just about tradition or typical gender roles"... contradiction in terms?

yes... I agree with you

but at the same time I don't see why I shouldn't ask a man out..

perhaps he's not brave enough to ask me out? what would be the use of such a man I wonder? I don't think it's a matter of bravery for them... but I don't know what the matter is either



I would ask a man out if I wanted to, that's a definite. and then I would see

There are some social codes, you like it or not, and if in a certain situation a man asks a woman out, or her phone number, or whether there’ll be next time they can chat, it’s a sign that he’s interested in her.

If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?

And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"

No shy guy !!!! You cannot be serious !!!! I am a shy guy, which is why I am still alone.

Hoiya to all the hommies out there

Dragon girl, that's a very pretty pic i luuuuurv it

As for the question at hand, it is much too complicated as many things could enter into the equation (such as: what kind of a person are you and what kind of a person are you looking for... and many more),
but in general,
my man Elley here's got me covered

It is, and there is no OR involved at all.

Modern was the key word here.

thanks Manu