Posted: Jul 20, 2008, 5:44 PM CST
I met a woman 16 years ago, who didn't attract me physically, but I fell in love with her personality and spirit. We stayed together for 8 years, she was a joy to share a life with, I loved her dearly. Sunday mornings I will always remember fondly...we would breakfast, talk for hours together, the best of mates...she was such a beautiful spirit, I always used to say, when she got up in the morning, it was like the sun rose in our apartment...but I left her in the end....Why?..because a woman should be desired as a woman, and I didn't desire her in that way. A relationship like that will always have a fatal flaw....
I asked her years later, "Didn't you miss a sex life?"...she answered, " There were so many hugs, and so much caring and tenderness, I never missed it..." That always brings me to tears...
The moral of the story??....you need it all, body, mind and soul....it cannot be either or....sometimes I wish it wasn't so...
Have I answered your question?....
FlowerOfTheSun wrote:Thank you ... I'm lucky on the face department!!
Let's wait and see what Lago says!!!