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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Small town boy stolen from the country and civilized. Love the outdoors and grew up doing woodsy/outdoorsy things. Roots pull at me to move somewhere where I can enjoy the outdoors more, but I've been civilized! Love the Chicago area and what it offers. Conundrum! Help! Want to travel. Give me a beach to walk or jog or a woods to get lost in! Good sense of humor and can laugh at myself, frequently! Honest (maybe to a fault). Good listener. Very analytical, very understanding, very introspective, big heart. Intelligent and opinionated (maybe to a fault, but at least I know). Want to know it all, but don't think that I am. So, tend to score high on IQ tests and won't shy from a good discussion... or argument. I tend to be a leader not a follower, so tend to want to control a situation, but not you. A relationship is much more important than any argument. Know there will be differences and want to resolve issues before they fester. It takes two and communication. More than anything I want to enjoy life with someone who can make everything else seem unimportant.

I'm looking for:

Oh, I don't know. I don't think I have an ideal. First of all, I think soul mates are made not found. That doesn't sound very romantic does it, but when you think of all the romance that goes into the making of soul mates, then it becomes romantic. Love at first sight? Hmmm, maybe. Why not? If that's what you want to call it. More like an infatuating romantic beginning and there's nothing wrong with that. Don't most relationships start that way? If not... good luck! Must be butterflies and hopefully they stay. I don't think I have an ideal, but I will know Ms. Right when she comes along. She will be perfection to me, but she will have flaws. She will definitely be attractive and fit. Average is fine. She may be a little shy at first, but will warm up. She will not be afraid to show affection in private or public. She will be feminine and know how to use her feminine charms. Or she may be confident and a bit of a tom boy who can put me in my place. A little bit of both would be perfect. She will be loving and playful, for sure. She will be a lover of life and won't let little things get to her. She will be giving and will receive it all back plus more. Promise.