ajm2009 A little romance can go a long way

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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: Hi, I'm not sure about the idea of soul mates, but i do think there is a perfect someone for everyone. The trouble with that idea however, is that it is pretty much left to chance to meet your perfect someone. By knowing yourself and knowing what you are looking for in a possible partner, in addition to keeping an open mind, perhaps romance can happen, even from afar....?

I'm hoping to meet the woman that has that something special in her. Something more than just physical attraction, and although this is a part of the mix - the well known physical chemistry between a man and a woman, I'm looking for more than just a beautiful face in a partner. I'm a well travelled guy who grew up on the tropical coast of NZ and I have an affinity for the land and sea and more than a passing interest in travel and culture. I am empathetic and sensitive towards others when situations need understanding. I have a healthy sense of humour, completely self sufficient, independent, creative, thoughtful, adventurous, romantic and try to become a better man with each day in thoughts and actions. I am a loving dad and am comfortable with kids, and a passionate and generous partner. Yes, I am confident, but modest despite the above.
I'm looking for:: You will be open minded, honest, free spirited and adventurous, willing to spend some time getting to know me, excited and willing to explore the outside world or wherever the mood takes you. Be comfortable in jeans and t-shirt or dressed for a romantic evening as you felt fitted the occasion, confident, independent, an excellent communicator, athletic and active, into sports not necessarily the same as mine, social but like your privacy, you feel some connection to the environment and enjoy being outdoors. You are relaxed about life but pay attention to what is going on around you. I need you to have an open heart and are willing to share it to get the most out a relationship and life, being generous of heart and loving is important. Somewhere in you is the missing ingredient, and i guess i will find it when i get to know you well.... good luck to all those looking for something similar, I hope your search will bring you the happiness you deserve.

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ajm2009

A little romance can go a long way

I am a:: 40 yr-old man
Seeking:: seeking women, 27-49
Location:: Whangarei, Northland New Zealand
Last Online:: Online within 2 weeks
Height:: 6' 1" (185 cm)
Body Type:: Fit/Athletic
Hair Color:: Salt & Pepper
Eye Color:: Hazel
Ethnicity:: White/Caucasian
Education:: Bachelors Degree
Religion:: Spiritual but not religious
Occupation:: Child Care / Education
Education
Income:: No Answer
Smokes:: Never
Drinks:: Rarely
Marital Status:: Divorced
Has Kids:: Yes, and they don't live with me
Wants Kids:: Not Sure
Looking for:: Dating
Sign:: Leo

My Match Info

Seeking:: seeking women, 27-49
Located:: Any Distance
Height:: 5' 3" (160 cm) to 6' 1" (185 cm)
Body Type:: Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Average, Firm & Toned, Proportional, Curvy
Hair:: Any
Eyes:: Any
Ethnicity:: Any
Education:: Any
Religion:: Spiritual but not religious
Occupation:: Any
Income:: Any
Smokes:: Never
Drinks:: Rarely
Marital Status:: Any
Has kids:: Any
Wants kids:: Any

My Interests

I love Music, playing the guitar, singing spontanously, dancing either slowly or with a latin flavour, its all good for the soul. Sports and fitness are a must and eating well to stay healthy are important features in my life. Bbq's, dinner parties or sunsets with a glass of wine and some open minded late night conversation with friends or my partner, works better for me than the crowded bar. Currently moving to Namibia to work for 2010.