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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: I’m 47; I just climbing out of a dead marriage; I believe that all people should be happy or at least try to be happy. This is my attempt to try. Even though I have a lot of friends, I feel lonely because someone, the most important one, is missing in my life; someone that I can love, understand, who I can trust, rely on and is able give me all the above in return. First, I need to tell you that I have an 8 year old autistic son who I love dearly, and the biggest part of my daily life centers around him: I am devoted to him. (I would assume that this statement will rule out 98 percent of prospective men who might take an interest in contacting me). I like Michael Moore and believe in his statements, so those who think that he manipulates and exaggerates facts - please avert your eyes and read no further. (This statement in itself, I presume, will rule out another 0.5 percent)
If your daily habits are to relax after work with a few glasses of wine or whiskey – please relax and hit return at the top of your screen. (Another 0.5?) Just be sincere, honest, and kind hearted, and be open to a possible long term relationship. Jealous types need not to apply.
Do you wonder how, considering all these requirements, someone can still have hope for a miracle, a spark, happiness, luck? And guess what? I still do; that is why I’m here writing to YOU!
I am an intelligent, realistic woman who, despite the many debilitating setbacks in my life, still dares to dream. I enjoy cooking, working in my yard & watch a good movie; I enjoy travel but due to my son’s condition I’m traveling a lot less now. I am very close to my family & few friends. I believe in old fashion values. I’m Russian, but America is my home for a long time.
I'm looking for:: I would like to meet a man who would be loyal and open minded.
I'm looking for someone with similar interests & would like to be dealing with me and my child. I want to meet a sole mate, someone who appreciates and enjoys togetherness;a person with good family traditions & is close to their family, someone who is stable & sure of himself with or without a career. Someone to share each others deepest thoughts with. If you think you can handle me, send me a sign.