About me: A sophisticated lady... sensible... sensual... sensitive... A rebel at heart striving for peace of mind - that's me, too, however contradictory it may sound...
I love life, nature and the world around me. I feel happy every morning when I wake up, come rain or come shine. I try to be natural, positive and optimistic, never give up and always look into the future with hope and good will. I am open, warm, affectionate and caring, and I easily get attached and committed to the people I like. My top priorities are freedom in the widest sense of this word, sincerity and honesty in relations, tolerance and right to privacy.
I am a born rebel and free spirit, somewhat of a dissident, and I have been self sufficient for as long as I can remember myself. I usually try to do things on my own and in my own way, but I always respect other people and their ideas, and I am a good listener. I know that the world is not just black and white, but mostly it is colourful (sometimes also grey, though), so I am very flexible and always ready for compromise. I have no problem to say 'I am sorry' even when it was not my fault: I just value peace of mind too much.
I am not someone who cannot see the forest for the trees... I never judge the book by looking at its cover, so I avoid shallow people with superficial attitude and those who say what they do not mean. I do not get dramatic about everyday trifles, and I am not a whining or complaining kind. I detest conflicts and always try to avoid situations that might cause them. But I am a fighter, and I can be very strong when I have real problems to deal with.
I had a happy marriage, my husband was a musician with an artistic mind and encyclopaedic knowledge and interests going far beyond music. He passed away in 2005, and I feel very lonesome now. But life has to go on, and now I feel that I am open for a new relationship... I am not looking for adventures or a vacation romance, and I am certainly not desperate in any way.
I'm looking for: I am here to make new friends and talk to like minded people worldwide... and eventually meet someone to share my love and my life with...
To fall asleep and to wake up in the arms of the man I love... to hold hands whenever we are together and to kiss each time our eyes meet... to cry and to laugh for no reason whatsoever... to talk carelessly about nothing and to take care of each other in everything... to feel as one no matter if we are close together or far apart... that's my idea of love and happiness... I had all that and much more, and I miss it... now once again I want to love and be loved in return... that's my desire...
If you feel that we might have something in common, please drop me a line, ask me a question or two and get to know me... If you are able to accept me as a whole, you can be sure that I will love you with all your minor faults and drawbacks... personality is what matters to me, not your looks or the clothes you wear. Distance and other issues will never be a problem for me. Let's make it happen...
Many years ago I met my love on the pen pal column of a Polish art magazine, so I believe there may be another chance... both for you and for me... a chance for the two of us to become one...