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About me:

Thanks to some psycho stuff via IM, I have turned it off for good, sorry to my friends!

I am very straight up and open with everything, so understand that first of all, I just say it how it is. I am down to earth, love camping in my travel trailer, love to travel, adore the ocean, collect seashells, love to read and write, and love going to the races, grew up with racing and it is in my blood. I own my own home that I am ready to sell and relocate from, back home unless I meet a Mr. Right that I may relocate for.

I detest conflict therefore I am easy to talk to, just an open book & I am good with just agreeing to disagree. I am very family oriented. Honesty is the standard that I live by. I am loyal & faithful, to a fault actually which I am happy to share if we talk in person. I have always looked younger then my age by about ten years I am told, & therefore have always attracted younger men, but that is not to say that I want a younger man. What I want more then anything is a stable man that is responsible, secure, dependable & a real man. Physical attributes are not as important to me as a man being a real man. I find that I often am attracted to the bigger men, tall and stocky. But it is about what is inside rather then out for the most part.

I enjoy life no matter what, even through hard times. I choose to smile rather then fret about things. I love to laugh & have the ability to laugh through the tough times knowing that all things pass & turn out okay. I love children, am done giving birth, but yours are fine. I want to learn to scuba dive. I am a water person, excellent swimmer and known to plunge into the ocean on the coldest winter day just to get to that shell. I am pretty free spirited. I love lighthouses & my dream is to travel & photograph every lighthouse.

No jealousies because there is no need for such, if both are trustworthy then what is there not to trust in any given situation? I am a confident person and need a confident person.

I'm looking for:

What I want in a mate?...here goes: A man that is mature, responsible, stable and secure, ambitious and pulls his own weight & willing to be the man of the house. I do not need another child, I need a partner in life. I have my own money, and enough of it to enable me to stay home and be a housewife, if I have a man that is doing his part. I do not need an elaborate lifestyle, as I am content with the simple things in life, but I need a help mate not a deadbeat. Secure and comfortable is all that is necessary in life. He must be faithful and loyal, and family oriented. I am a social drinker only. I have little tolerance for alcoholics and drug users, nor woman abusers. I am a romantic and extremely passionate, so I need a man that can handle that. I love to dote on my man, cater to him and make him feel like the King of his castle, but likewise I also like to be appreciated in the doing. I am old school traditional gender roles, you man..me woman, and the man is the head of the house and I lean unto him. I am a blend of old fashioned and romantic modern I guess, when I love you there are no inhibitions and shyness...so as you men so bluntly put it, I am a lady on the surface and a tramp in the bedroom - with the man I am in solid relationship with that is. I am very creative and love finding creative ways to keep my man turned on and tuned in to me. I thrive on passion, so I like to keep it hot. Taken from a male friends profile, "A man can make love to 100 different women, but a real man can make love to 1 woman, 100 different ways". A real woman also applies here in this, and that is who I am.

I know that I have a lot to offer, because I am hot blooded passionate and I do live for totally taking care of my man. I believe love is sacred, marriage is sacred, and I love hard when I love. I am looking for the man that will be the rest of my life, nothing short of that.