About me: .. well, basics would be 4'11 average body. I would say I'm smart kind, unfortunately niave, at least my friends say i should not be so trusting, and after a few dates im realizing that perhpas they are right. I find that in this day and age everything has to be fast, too fast. Dont' people want to get to know eachother, what happened to slow romantic dates, taking your time. I have an autistic child, i cna't afford to take things too quickly nor can i allow him my son to get attached or hurt. I think as we get older dating isn't the same. One thing i have noticed about this site is men and woman seem to say one thing and want another. If your really just looking for sex then why not be honest. TOo many good people get hurt that way. I know i've trusted the wrong person in the past, but we also must take some responsiblity for mistakes as we have our own minds and will. I don't want sex, well i don't casual sex, i want to knwo someone their hopes and dreams goals and desires in life. I want simplicity, a place in the country maybe, i am irish so if that small palce is in ierland well that kills two birds with one stone. ( i'd like one day to retire there) I don't want to hurt anyone, and I don't want them to hurt me either so why not take this slow and do things the right way. Lust is a deceptive thing, and mistaken so easily for love. Humans are not immortal no matter if we think so, and our heart are as fragile as the skin that covers them.. I don't want perfection, i like imperfections its what attracts me to someone.If you liek someone, they will always be attractive to you becuase you like them my son has asbergers autisum. I homeschool him, and i own and run a daycare. So my tiem off is precious and very little, i'm not a drinker, no drugs, I respect myself and hope that anyone contacting me is like minded. THere are plenty of ladies out there looking for fun, that are willing leave the ones that arent alone. Good luck everyone.
I'm looking for: Hmm this i can't honestly fill out, without sounding cliche or false. I think perhaps take it as it comes. Pending the person. I myself would prefer to grab a coffee and take a walk. Find a nice spot at a park and talk. The beginning starts with communication and surrondings that allow for one on one conversation.