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clapso: " Looking for Someone Like YOU! "
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clapso: "Looking for Someone Like YOU! "
39 year old man seeking women, 18-58
Utica, New York USA
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About me and what I'm looking for
About me: I wrote the following poem about what I want and don't want in a relationship

"Loves List of Sought and Rejected" By ClapSo

I seek not conquest
But connection

I seek not manipulation
But understanding

I seek not games
But playfulness

I seek not possession
But sharing

I seek not judgment of others
But to know them deeply

I seek not to use or be used
But to be served and of service

I seek not to win or lose
But to tie

For it is the ties That bind us
One to the other

That make of strings
A rope
Strong enough
That we may pull together

To share
The workers burden of relationship
And the lovers joy of romance

That we may be ourselves
Safe and secure with each other

I'm looking for: Someone that gets the same joy in creating that I do. The type of person that's as comfortable at a gallery opening or symphony concert as they are at a back yard BBQ or a nascar race. She that will hold me so close, we'll forget we'd ever been apart. That one who will take the good with the bad, and get through both with an ounce of wit and a pound of humor.

I'm me and I'm looking for someone that is as comfortable being themselves as I am with being myself...

Please take note that I'm sick of getting hit on by:

Married woman looking for someone that will give them what their husbands stopped giving them years ago. DIVORCE HIM, then we'll talk.

Woman with ticking biological clocks looking for genetic material followed by child support payments. I suggest going to a sperm bank and getting a job to meet these needs.

Better living through chemistry woman who are on a first name basis with their bartender, and/or pharmacist, and/or drug dealer. A bottle of wine with dinner, a couple Martinis now and then, or needed medication are ok. If however, you feel naked without a cooler of beer/multiliter box of wine/a bottle of hardstuff, and/or a dozen prescription vials, and/or an eight ball, etc. Please find someone who shares your consumption tastes elsewhere. I ain't about that.

Wild woman intent on making me another notch on their man eating bedposts. If all you are looking for is a roll in the hay, you can pick up any number of men that will play your game at any bar!

Please, lets play nice, truthful and fair ladies.

The scientifically impossible I do right away
The spiritually miraculous takes a bit longer



My Basics

I am a: 39 year old man
Seeking: seeking women, 18-58
Located in: Utica Dating | New York Dating | USA Dating
Looking for: Long-term
Height: 6' 0"  (183 cm)
Body Type: Fit/Athletic
Hair Color: Light Brown
Eye Color: Blue
Ethnicity: White/Caucasian
Education: Some College
Religion: Other
Occupation: Writer / Journalist
I write, therefor I am...
Income: No Answer
Smokes: Socially
Drinks: Socially
Marital Status: Divorced
Has Kids: Grown and left the nest
Wants Kids: no, but welcome yours

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