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About me:

Returned from Australia, Seattle, SF and a Vegas bachelor weekend yesterday... setting aside travels for now and open to exploring lasting friendships locally (NJ, NYC or Philly).

With an interesting blend of energy, great outlook and patience, my eventual LT goal is starting a family in the face of everlasting trilemmas:

Honest / Supportive / Bright
Privacy / Transparency / Participation

Taste of my personal side:

Born in London and lived in various countries. Currently loving life as an east coast US Citizen, while contemplating moving out west.

I value and am intrigued by life's simplexity. I enjoy experiencing life's process of freedom. I love the creative process (through music, dancing, technology entertainment design yes that's a nod to TED), traveling and in general exploring the nuances of life.

Awesome character traits:

- authentic integrity & honesty

- compassionate curiosity (respect the permission process)

- conscious independence, self reflection & expression

- interdependence (sustainable progress, perspective & intentions)

- appreciation of life's possibilities

- accepting the past, enjoying the present and don't know the future - how exciting!

Do you love life as a human BEING in the HERE and NOW? Honestly, holla back :o)

I love discovering perspectives like Six Thinking Hats by EdwardDeBono:

* WhiteHat: JustTheFacts,
- unemotional data and questions about getting more data.

* BlackHat: TheDownSide,
- negative consequences, the worst things that could happen.

* YellowHat: TheUpSide,
- positive consequences, the best things that could happen.

* GreenHat: InnovativeIdeas,
- off-the-wall creativity.

* RedHat: GutFeelings,
- emotions, what you really think in your heart and belly.

* BlueHat: MetaThinking,
- process and procedure.

I searched "Six Thinking Hats" for what the hat metaphor does:

I'm looking for:

"The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. The opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth." "Some subjects are so serious that one can only joke about them." N Bohr

"The difficult is what takes a little time; the impossible is what takes a little longer." F Nansen

"Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try Again. Fail again. Fail better." S Beckett

When I ask myself, "Who are the happiest people on the planet?" my answer is, "Those who can't wait to wake up in the morning to get back to what they were doing the day before." J Cronin

"The only reason for time is so that everything doesn't happen at once." "Two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I am not yet completely sure about the universe." "Common sense is the collection of prejudices acquired by age eighteen." Einstein

"The opposite of love is not hate, it's indifference. The opposite of art is not ugliness, it's indifference. The opposite of faith is not heresy, it's indifference. And the opposite of life is not death, it's indifference." E Wiesel

"Wisdom lies neither in fixity nor in change, but in the dialectic between the two." O Paz

"You can tell whether a man is clever by his answers. You can tell whether a man is wise by his questions." N Mahfouz

"You can resolve to live your life with integrity. Let your credo be this: Let lie come into the world, let it even triumph. But not through me." A Solzhenitsyn

"Believe those who seek the truth, doubt those who find it." A Gide

"One of the elementary rules of nature is that, in the absence of law prohibiting an event or phenomenon it is bound to occur with some degree of probability. To put it simply and crudely: Anything that can happen does happen." "Pick a flower on Earth and you move the farthest star." P Dirac

ANOTHER PROFILE: "Anyhow, this is not grocery shopping, you don't get to know a person by reading what's on the label."