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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

So you want to know the Essence of the Man? Maybe you should decide!

My friends tell me they see me as outgoing, emotionally in touch, deep thinking, & intelligent... a great communicator, articulate & very open! Someone with a huge heart & who makes time for most anyone if i think they are in need... I am well educated, well spoken & was brought up in the old school where being a gentleman was considered important... I'm not afraid to get a little outside my comfort zone to experience & learn in life... well most of the time anyway! infact learning,growing & sharing are probably some of my main joys! I do have issues just like everyone else of course but I think it is more about how you have dealt with them or if you are! I'm pleased to say I am not at all moody & I'm told I have a very happy disposition, quick wit, & a great... if not off the wall sense of humour. Sad but true hahahaha *If I start to sound vague... I probably need food... I'm not known for my cooking skills *I don't suffer fools & people who are mean of spirit!

Interests... deep & meaningful things to totally mindless fun... from the skilled art of fine conversation, good food, & company... to the arts, painting, sculpture, theatre, & music. Getting out in nature, walking, boating, days out & weekends away, photography, architecture, design, classic cars, aircraft, riding my motorcycle... & a few more besides- Never enough time is there! I am 1-84m [thats 6 ft for anyone old enough to remember] with a slimish athletic build.I have olive skin & silver /salt & pepper hair, large hazel green eyes & high cheek bones [short beard optional]. I'm told that I have a character filled face with expressive eyes. People often mistake me for being european~ Italian or Greek- even though I was born in new zealand! Must be those wild genes that I haven't heard about hhhhmmm

I'm looking for:

When you have seen a bit of life.... one of two things happens- you are either firmly in the grips of the LALA Fairy in your desires... or you have learned a few things from your time & are hopefully a little realistic... but still with a few hopes & dreams With any luck you might think some of mine are of the later variety Simple... 1,2,3 of attraction...

Do they have a face that makes you break out in a smile? Does your personality radiate off theirs or clash head on?

Are their core values & direction in life similar? or can you see each other being happy to compromise?

Tis a hard road finding the perfect person... as the saying goes A non smoker for sure!!

I would prefer someone without children... Although that maybe a little flexible! I am child friendly- before you ask... some have even liked me Ha! The age range is fairly open... if there is an attraction it doesn't matter too much.
It is more about the whole person to me rather than just one aspect... that elusive mix that's just so hard to pin point! I am a guy... I am visual... but hopefully balanced in my desires I do love the feminine charms of life... the curve of figure... the allure of perfume... the touch of soft skin... Most women I know love the fact that men are captivated by their charms... after all we have to keep the planet going somehow Don't we! I am honest & open about who I am & the fact that I fancy the feminine form... Now if only I could find you! Lets put it this way... if our personalities don't get on famously... all the sex appeal in the world wouldn't make me go there! I must be a sad !

No matter how you try to read between the lines in someones profile there is no substitute for speaking face to face, seeing the body language & if there is a mutual attraction? True!

So I'm happy to share a few mails & then perhaps a chat on the phone, meeting for coffee or a walk.

Look forward to hearing from you Ciao for now

James