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About me:

I am a man of my word. If your word is no good, then neither are you. I will never lie to you, the truth may hurt you, but I will not hurt you. If we are both hungry and there is only one piece of chocolate…it is yours.
If you need to talk and I need to sleep…we will talk.
If you need help and I am worn out…I will give you a hand.
If you need a hug and I am busy…I will hold and comfort you.
If you need my company and I have plans…my plans will change.
Whatever you need regardless of how I feel…I will be there for you.
I will always give you my best.
I will always try to be a man you can respect and be proud of.
I will be loyal, trustworthy, and honorable. I have faults, but will always do my best to improve and I will always change for the better.
My greatest joy is seeing you smile.
I will try to make everyday, a better day for you.
I will give you my heart, my soul, my Love, and my life.
BUT…You must be worthy of it in return.

I…in medical terminology I am a T12, L1 incomplete paraplegic. In simple terms that means that things don’t work below my waist. I was told there was no hope of me getting anything back ever, and I would be confined to a wheelchair the rest of my life because there was only 3mm left of my spinal cord. That was in January of 2002, and it is now April of 2006. Since my injury I have been fighting back. And at this point I am walking, (or at least something that resembles walking…lol), with a brace on my left leg. I still need the wheelchair though. In the last 5 years or so I have lost almost everything I valued. My best, and only friend…my dad, my family, my job, my business, the use, feeling, and sensation in my legs, control of my bowels and bladder, my freedom to do what I want when I want, and almost my life twice. I also live in constant pain.
BUT…
I haven’t lost my self-respect, my ability to give to others, to care for others, to Love, to laugh, and you will rarely see me without a smile.

I'm looking for:

She will share my beliefs.
I believe in Love, and if I had a religion, it would be Love. And my God would be my woman. What is Love to me.
Love is the ocean, not a wave hitting the shore, or the tide with an ebb and flow, it is everlasting and never ending. It gives us the power to do the undoable, the strength to resist temptation, and the ability to go on when we feel we can’t continue. Love is all about giving, and caring.
Love is what makes life worth living.
Love will put a smile on your face even when there is an ache in your heart. Love should be honored, cherished, and respected.
I am looking for a woman that is Love personified. Love is Who she is.
She will have similar priorities as I do where your spouse is always first, then your children, family, friends, work, duties, and lastly yourself.
She will be judgmental, because if you don’t judge, then you are mental. I want to be judged, and I want to be worthy of your respect and honor.
She will give conditional love, she will Love me, but not without conditions, and I will live up to those conditions, because I Love her.
She will understand the concept of giving, and of allowing someone to give to them as well. When you love someone you WANT to give to them, and one of the greatest gifts you can give to someone is letting them do something for you. She should be tall, slim, and have a nice chest, and she will be my treasure, my treasure chest...lol