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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

My preference is to slowly get to know someone as a friend, and see where it goes. If you are seeking "instant gratification" (in other terms: "getting laid"), then I am NOT the one for you. I am in a point in my life, where I am seeking someone of substance, not of fluff. As you get older, you tend to know what you want and don't want. I hope that sounds like you, too :)

I am an ebony female , college educated, and professionally employed in the downtown Boston area. I love fine to casual dining, movies, bowling, fishing, museums, comedy clubs, live music such as blues and jazz. I am very versatile in my tastes, from dining in downtown Boston, to get aways in the country setting.

I am 5 feet and 7 inches tall, caramel complexion, dimples, shoulder length, black, curly hair, but I do sometimes wear it straight. I call myself a BBW, but those who know me, call me "thick" (not thin nor, obese) for I do have a natural 42H bust line. I am plump, but with curves and small hips. Think of a plump "Betty Boop", but with some color ;) lol I know that I cannot be everyone's "Barbie's dream doll", but I am not looking to be her for you. I love myself, and I am comfortable in my own skin :)

I am not married, nor do I have any plans to be, anytime soon. I don't have kids, and nor do I want them. PLEASE DO NOT GET ME WRONG-I DO LIKE KIDS!!!! But my preference is to meet someone, who does not want, nor have kids. Kids grown and out of the coop, would be ideal. I will date someone who has kids (hopefully fully grown teenagers! lol) ;)

I'm looking for:

I am attracted to Caucasian men, but I prefer to say "Man", since I am seeking only to one, to get to know ;) Tall, small to medium build, and someone who is spontaneous, outgoing, outdoorsy with a laid back personality (please no high maintenance men!). I do like a man, who is in his 40's to early 50's, who is secure with himself, easy going, great sense of humor, and versatile from going to a black tie event, to "mom and pop" bar to throw down some beers, and to see what game is on.

As for emails: I hate them!!!! lol I work in the financial district, and part of my job is to check my boss's emails, correspond, and check my own. This is part of my job, but I don't want to have to do that, on my time off. My preference is to just exchange phone numbers, and talk on the phone to get to know each other. From there, a quick meet up for a cup of coffee is sufficient! Do you agree?

Turn on's: 1. Men who are self-assured/confident 2. Men who
know what they are looking for (NOT wishy-washy) 3.Honesty 4.Maturity.
5. A man who can appreciate a woman, who knows what she's looking for.

Tip for the day: Instead of putting me on your favorites, try sending me an email instead. Trust me, you will get faster response ;)

If this sounds like you, feel free to email me. Sorry, but I am not seeking rude, obnoxious, Ebonics minded people (you would be surprised lol) ;)

Thanks!