esquirex If I Was Your Girlfriend Would You Let Me Dress You

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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:: Others may perceive me as being undemonstrative and self-controlled. Not wanting to be the center of attention, I generally support others. I show self-control in most things I do; I am not an extremist. Others may see me as stable, mature and steadfast. I prefer a warm, friendly environment free of conflict and hostility. In that environment, I prefer reassurance of my involvement and self-worth. I tend to be a traditionalist, and will enjoy the social environment best if it is stable and predictable. I dislike sudden decisions about where to go or what to do, preferring to think things out first. I may demonstrate positive possessiveness by developing strong attachments; however, I will not be overly involved as some others tend to do. I am a good friend and always willing to help those I consider to be my friends. I also show strong ties, and will be uncomfortable when separated from my friends for an extended period. Because of my lenient and complacent nature, others with fewer scruples may try to take advantage of me but to no avail. I could still benefit from greater assertiveness. I tend to be loyal to others. My loyalty shows in a variety of ways including my "staying power" with relationships and activities.

*** Please don't assume that this data is what defines me. It is merely a brief description of me. If you read my postings here and elsewhere, you will know there is more to me than what you interpret from my words. Bottom line - don't fill in any blanks without talking to me. There is a lot to me, and everyone else for that matter, so don't judge me without getting to know me. Far too many have too much pride in what they think they know about other people. Unless you've met every type of person on earth, you're probably very wrong in your assumptions. ***
I'm looking for:: I like a wide range of women. Here are the "must-haves" as far as what I look for:

honest, affectionate, sensitive, perceptive, non-judgemental, respectful and considerate.

I could go on but we need something to talk about!

If you like Depeche Mode, that's a plus!

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esquirex

If I Was Your Girlfriend, Would You Let Me Dress You?

I am a:: 43 yr-old man
Seeking:: seeking women, 26-50
Location:: Bellingham, Washington USA
Last Online:: Online over 1 month
Height:: 5' 9" (175 cm)
Body Type:: Large
Hair Color:: Black
Eye Color:: Brown
Ethnicity:: Black/African
I'm a black man, dammit!
Education:: Bachelors Degree
In Music with the focus on Orchestration.
Religion:: Spiritual but not religious
I beleive in God, consider myself a Christian but do not attend Church for personal reasons.
Occupation:: Artist
I write poetry, screenplays and music
Income:: No Answer
Smokes:: Regularly
Drinks:: Occasionally
Marital Status:: Never Married
Has Kids:: I have no kids
Wants Kids:: Not Sure
Sign:: Aquarius

My Match Info

Seeking:: seeking women, 26-50
Located:: Any Distance
Height:: 5' 0" (152 cm) to 6' 1" (185 cm)
Body Type:: Slim/Slender, Fit/Athletic, Muscular, Average, Few extra pounds, Large, Disabled
Hair:: Auburn, Black, Blonde, Dark Blonde, Light Brown, Dark Brown, Partial Gray, Gray, Silver/White
Eyes:: Black, Blue, Brown, Green, Gray, Hazel, Other
Ethnicity:: Native American, Asian, Black/African, East Indian, Hispanic/Latino, Middle Eastern, White/Caucasian
Education:: High School, Some College, Associate Degree, Bachelors Degree, Masters Degree, PhD/Post Doctoral
Religion:: Atheist, Buddhist/Taoist, Christian/Catholic, Christian/Protestant, Christian/LDS, Christian/Other, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim/Islamic, New Age, Non-religious, Other, Agnostic, Spiritual but not religious
Occupation:: Administrative/Secretarial, Artist, Entertainment, Executive/Management, Fashion/Modeling, Finance, Food Services/Restaurant/Catering, Labor/Construction, Legal, Medical/Dental, Political/Government, Retail, Retired, Sales/Marketing, Student, Teacher/Professor, Technical / Science / Engineering, Transportation
Income:: Less than $25,000, $25,000 to $50,000, $50,000 to $75,000, $75,000 to $100,000, $100,000 to $150,000, $150,000+
Smokes:: Never, Socially, Regularly, Trying To Quit
Drinks:: Never, Socially, Regularly
Marital Status:: Never Married, Divorced, Widowed, Separated
Has kids:: I have no kids, Live with me, Live with me sometimes, Don't live with me
Wants kids:: Definitely, Probably Not, Not Sure