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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I am an American. Part Native American, part American Mutt. I hope to be described as intelligent, sincere, compassionate,honest, understanding, fun, (even freaky at times)funny and faithful. Many other attributes as well, but doesn't that lean on being conceited? I adore my children, (I have an 14 yr old daughter who is my main squeeze in this world,2 other children are grown)and seek someone who fully understands, that children always come first.However I know how to dedicate myself to my guy and make all things balance. Its all about balance isn' it? I am alone for several years since the death of my fiance(cancer)and divorced for 8 yrs.I live, breath and desire music. Its a major part of my life. I adore seeing live concerts. I am an avid reader,writer,singer,I am eclectic in genres,Rock(new and old), Blues, Country, Folk, Modern Christian, Blue Grass, Classical and I am always open to new areas as well. I live in NY, but i am NOT attached to it. I have been here for almost 6 yrs, moving here from Flagstaff AZ. I like country living, quiet little towns, friendly people, and NY is SO not about that. I do desire to move out of here again. I do like the concerts around these parts though! I love the Ocean, Mountians. I love our earth, and have concerns about our environment. We NEED to take much better care of our earth, as it provides us with everything we actually need for survival. Its OUR job to care for it, we can't leave it for "others" we ARE the others!! I am a dedicated American, who supports our troops, (Perhaps not the war). I like board games like Backgammon and Scrabble. I think that the brain is the biggest aphrodiasic, so without stimulating conversation i'm bored. I LOVE kissing, hugging and being affectionate. Please, no drug/alcohol issues need respond.. recovering or otherwise. I totally believe in "SPARKS" without that instant attraction it's usual just a "friend" thing.

I'm looking for:

A CLEAN, Music Oriented, Honest, faithful, fun,Christian and full of faith would be great, and a compassionate man is what I am attracted too. Stimulating conversationalist, Laid back, but out going, patient, kind, warm heart. I guess I am seeking "my" perfect gentle man, but not expecting A Perfect man. Know what I mean? Just a normal, job bearing, decent person, who likes to play hard sometimes, or just kick it up at home (cooking for me would surely be appreciated *wink*) LOVE SEAFOOD!!! *hint *hint* Looking for that spark, I mean let's face it, we all know what we are atrracted to, usually its in an instant moment...Not that we can't make great friends here. Friends are great. Sometimes the sparks do take a little longer, but Oh My, Watch out When Those Sparks fly on a first meeting right!? Where's there's a spark...a fire is brewing. I'd love to find my fire. Must have more then that fire though, in the grand scheme of things, you just got to make sure that there is something, many somethings, to talk about, when we get tired of dancing with our sparks *wink* Know What I mean? No seperated men please! Not interested in healing your marriage that is on the rocks!