About me: These past few years I dedicated myself to raising my one and only child and he almost 16 now. Finally, I have decided to make more time for me and to that end I am here checking who is around, who I would like to know, and hoping (above everything else online) people will be curious enough about me to exchange thoughts more than just one time. Everyone seems to be looking for the same things in here but it is how we get to that which is important. I am cautious and I am willing to take my time. I simply want to talk and get to know someone first, not look for the closest bed to jump into. That will maybe, come later. I am not motivated by sex. There it is.
I like a laugh, I like to be a clown sometimes. I do not mind crowds nor do I get intimidated by strangers. I think it is easier to mix in if you simply ignore initial thoughts and just blend to the folks you are around. At the least, you will always meet new friends.
I try my best to make people happy which is usually not all that hard to do. Most time a round of kindness is all it takes and the thought that you know people are being faithful to you. Not so much to ask.
I do not believe in confrontation or violence, I believe that children need to be raised by good people whether a couple, single mom or dad, whatever. I naturally assume that anyone I am going to meet will have kids and their ages will vary. That is fine. I am great with kids and it does not matter if they are babies, teens or adults. Other peoples kids tend to get a kick out of me anyway and my son thinks I am the greatest (the only thing I will have bragging rights on).
I have heard a thousand reasons why these sites do not work. One time, I would like to discover one reason why it does. Just once and I would be happy. I hope everyone gets a chance to find that. My best to all.
I'm looking for: My ideal girl would have a heart that fits me inside it real snug. She would have a curious mind and would like to talk about anything. I like the idea of telling someone that I care and I would like to meet someone who is not afraid to show it openly. Ideally and strictly for survival purposes I suppose we all have to be working for financial reasons but at the same time I am old school in that I believe people can enjoy themselves cheaply, not necessarily letting work suck up all our time still getting only two weeks off per year. Who needs it.
Above all else, my girl would respect others and equally respect herself as I do. I do indeed respect others and equally respect myself. My ideal match (hate that phrase) would be open, kind, respectful and willing to learn about all the good in life, not the bad. Ideally, she would be absolutely honest about everything for all time. I like to chase dreams and I would hope that my other half would be the same or at least be willing to be adventurous to do new things. I think all things are possible so if she agrees with that she would be willing to travel to the moon if necessary. She would have to become my best friend for life. It is never too late for any of us. I hope your out there!!