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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

time for an update . . its been almost a year since the accident and my son is doing great . . you would never know anything had happened if it wasnt for the scars. which means i'm happy too.

we've just come back from 3 months in thailand . . that helped us both move on. i also went to cambodia and vietnam . . and boy that really helped me feel better. seeing what those people have been thru with my own eyes and seeing how hard their lives are (and yet they are so happy . . miles of smiles everywhere) made me feel so grateful for this beautiful country and the life i live here. i've come home seeing new zealand with completely new eyes . . this country is paradise. and my son is alive and well . . that is a lot to be thankfull for.

I'm looking for:

i'm not entirely sure where i am in terms of wanting a relationship, i've been single for over 2 ad a half years now . . the longest i've been alone since i was 14!! the longest before this was 3 months!! it was hard at first but i have to say i'm enjoying my single status now . . there are actually lots of good things about being single. . but i love meeting interesting, fun people on here and if someone who ticked all the boxes came along that would be wonderful but until then flying solo is pretty good. the details of my ideal match are still the same . . someone who is healthy in body, mind and spirit, tall, successful, generous, loving, affectionate, reformed bad boy (no smokers or drinkers) would be a good start. lol!! able to travel and a good sense of humour (i love to laugh) is a must . . and no couch potatos please . . . i know you need love too but i'm pretty damn fit and healthy myself and you just wouldn't be able to keep up. someone who works out regularly would be great as i love to train with someone, especially my partner. i'm also very partial to virgo men and PREFER CARAMEL TO VANILLA . . haha! oh and he has to be a good dancer and smell good too!! now thats not too much to ask is it?