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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I have taken on several foster kids to nurture in their time of need. I adopted one and now I'm trying to adopt my second son. I've really been fed up with the 'system' so I am wanting to leave the program some time soon. I'm brutally honest, respectful, vocal about my opinions and expectations. I'm romantic, creative, supportive and extremely passionate in many areas/things in my life. I'm a BBW body type and anyone that has an issue with that, (move along I want nothing to do with 'shallow people')... I'm somewhat tomboyish, yet I know when to be a lady. I dislike shopping, gossip, drama or meddling people and to be honest I really am not the 'talk on the phone' type person. I'm a private person but with the 'right' people I'm an open book, but I'd hope that things I say would stay 'private'.... Life hasn't been very active for me the past 5 years but I'd like to ammend this and start to find my way back into finding someone to share my life with. I enjoy camping, canoeing, fishing, reading, working on projects, website design, my volunteer work and many other things. I'm not big on sports at all, although once in a while I will go see a Cards game, and I 'do' however like UFC and Boxing. I do like my 'space' and time to have my privacy to work and I respect the time and privacy others want to have as well. I am the type of person that gives every thing I have to someone in all aspects and I 'expect' the same being given back to me. I'm the 'heart on the shoulder' type woman, love affection and genuinely when I find 'the one' will give all I have to make sure that they know 'they are the one'.. I am not looking to 'date around' and a 'casual' affair, (No thanks).. I hate games and in no way will I tolerate them. I 'hate' players/ cheaters/users and abusive people and very keen on 'deleting' those type out of my life quickly. I'm a simple woman as far as (possessions) and so forth, I don't require much and happy with what I have.

I'm looking for:

Looking to build a great friendship first and foremost. Honesty, respect, good listener, loves kids, patient, kind, romantic and seductive male. A man with thier head on their shoulders and has 'stability' in their lives. Someone willing to open up about their passions, share them and willing to walk with me in this life by my 'side', not in front or behind me. A man that is sensitive enough to hold my face gently sharing a morning kiss to the strength of carrying my burdens when I need him as much as I would do the same for him. I like men that like to touch and hold hands and cuddle as well. I prefer someone that has faith in God. I don't expect a perfect human being, but someone that has good morals and values. I'm not looking to be compared to your past I only want to share it and grow with you to make a better and loving future. I'm not looking for someone to pay my way as I'm extremely independent, but I am looking for someone that's responsible and can provide stability on their own. Along with your kids and mine I want to be #1 and to know as often as possible we are a 'team'. Life is too short for games. I prefer messages from people with photos and more substance in their profiles than just 'tell you later' or 'more to come'.. Give me a'reason' to want to know you. Anyone wanting to contact me please understand: I haven't dated in so long because I 'must' bring my kids along. Sometimes I have only one of them, and 1/2 the week I have both so if that is a problem and it cannot be a family orientated date don't bother because in my current situation that's impossible.