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About me:

A year on here now! Starts; stops; a lot of idling :-)) No one's made my engine purr yet. What can I say about myself? I'm a regular guy, but better, lol. I've had wives; I still believe in love. My friends think of me as an eternal optimist (and a bit nuts, sometimes). I work (own a biz). I play (a lot of hockey!). I'm a mediocre golfer but it's a pleasure to do. I have an under-utilized cultured side. I enjoy the Arts, museums and music, but my male friends would rather shoot pool! I love to travel. I've been to Europe 4 times lately, but I want to go with a lover, not my pals! I'm always on the go: planning, organizing; getting at it. I'm warm, kind and gentle. My mind is now quicker than my body!! "I'm a very affectionate guy!" Always hugging; always kissing. I think I'm just the touchy, feely type. I'll kiss you whenever the urge comes over me, wherever we are. I'll send you notes on your phone while you're at work. I'll stay out of your hair when you need privacy; I'll listen to you when you need to talk.

I'm looking for:

November2008 update: requeim
it was 2 summers ago. I fell for a woman I met accidentally. Wow, what a fantastic feeling. Every day became exciting; every night was filled with the anticipation of seeing her or talking to her. Life was good.
The sun shone brighter.
Work was more enjoyable.
I think my hockey even improved!
Alas, it ended. Sometimes immediate attraction doesn't mean "forever"!
I did learn something, though:

You can fall in love, even if you've been there before. There's nothing like it.
It will hit you out of the blue, maybe on your 99th first meeting "coffee date", but never if you don't get out there and be yourself to all the world.
It's not that some of us are wonderful and some aren't; it's that the majority of us aren't meant to fall in love with each other, but some of us are.
The more chances you take, the more likely you are to get struck by lightning.