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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Understanding, Unquestioning, Humane, Selfless, Gentle, Kindhearted, Gullible, Indulgent Here's one important truth about me: I have a tender heart. I know that others need to learn to take care of themselves, and know they need to accept the consequences of their foolish or bad behavior. And sometimes, even when my instinct is to help them, you will let them fend for themselves and let them suffer the consequences of their choices or circumstances.

But most of the time I am are there to help when they need you. If they are in trouble, I offer compassion and go out of my way to be helpful. If they need someone who will listen, I am trustworthy and sympathetic. And am direct with them; when they need advice or counsel, I offer it in a straightforward, direct manner, without beating around the bush.

I am also smart enough to know that I cannot take good care of others if you fail to take good care of yourself, so I listen to my own wants and needs. If I've run out of sympathetic energy, I spend time restoring myself. If I've ignored my own pain or frustration, I find a friend who will listen well, or go into my own private healing place and give my permission to focus on me. But before long, you're back at it with your friends, offering a sympathetic ear and compassion on which they learn to trust, also giving straightforward advice and counsel when they ask for it. I do know how to take care of myself, but my genuine interest is in taking care of others.

I'm looking for:

One that is looking for a long term relationship. Someone who is very caring, generous, compassionate, athletic, and romantic. One who takes religion and family seriously. One who is looking to have a best friend. Someone who is open to new ideas and able to compromise. Someone who will open my door and be real.