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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I am a strange conundrum of contradictions. On the one hand I have a magnetic aura and you couldn't miss me in a crowd, yet on the other hand I need privacy and seclusion. I am a free spirit, but, in the past, I often submitted to restrictions put upon me by former "shallow" mates, who wanted arm candy rather than raw love, the kind that makes you grow! Loving and passionate, I am great at communicating with other people what I am feeling. I am cautious about life and hate the unexpected, but I can't seem to avoid experiencing strange coincidences and fated meetings. I am a very loving and eager to please partner, when the soil for security is seeded with honesty, wisdom and love from a nurturing worthy adversary! I am often a magnet for partners who try to father me.
It feels like I've been sitting in a cocoon, (since I got pregnant, w/ my 3rd child,out of wedlock, from my ex-fiance, 2.5 years ago, even during our brief whirlwind romance) hatching plans of how my life is supposed to come together, preparing my oldest for her calling to be in the publics eye). My genuine love of people shines through and will eventually help me carve out a long-lasting relationship with my soulmate. I have a kind and magnanimous nature. I will always try to be polite and kind to those I meet. I am regal and alluring but not arrogant or pretentious; I represent power, but I use my power only for good. I have a certain amount of spiritual protection around me. I have found in the past that uncanny coincidences have saved me from disaster. I don't take this divine intervention for granted. I am greately influenced by my surroundings, and if I am in a place that I feel is ugly or confined, my mood becomes heavy. This chameleon approach to my environment can have its plus points though, as I shine when I am in places I adore.

I'm looking for:

You love to banter and argue but do not take things as personally as most. You're brillant at making me laugh, and your observations are hilarious and outrageous. Your eccentric sense of humor comes from understanding the height and depth of emotions. You have often been overwhelmed by your own emotional range and have developed an inspired way to deal with it by making yourself and others laugh at misfortune. You are very intellectual and have a sturdy feel about you. Your life is something of a carousel. You hardly ever have a mundane existence. You are capable of harnessing balance between my indecisive spirit and dramatic life as you are strong and solid. You are very street smart and count on me to keep your life colorful and keep you inspired. You have a great respect for strong-willed females who are fiesty, who have walked to hell and back, you may have been raised by a strong,single mom.