About me: Heyo, just a crazy dude that lives to laugh and make others laugh. Been around the block a few times and always stuck to my ways of being mr. nice guy and sweet and respectful but continued to be stepped on and knocked around. so.. thats coming to an end, well some of it. I will remain to be respectful and nice and sweet but I will not be stepped on mistreated again. I will WALK. I like reading and learning new things, love to go out and dance and hit a scene or two although I'm not so much into clubbing, I'll go with a significant other tho, I'm all for fun times. I love going to the movies and just tangling up on the couch with popcorn and dvd's with a gal. Also like being spontaneous and just going for road trips and drives. visiting new places, having fun and adventures *to a degree*. I do smoke, pack a day but I'm committed to quitting. Not a heavy drinker at all but I do like the occasional or social drink, mostly mixed drinks or some others straight like Scotch or Ammaretto. Not into drugs at all although I went there in my youth. I'm a music freak and you'll find me listening to music just about all day long. I'm very generous and big hearted, also still a bit old fashioned and romantic but I like to be a little modern too. Love eating out at classy eateries like Japanese Haibachi Grills *fav* Italian, pretty much anything as long as it's away from the house. I like cooking for me and for "her". I like pampering and cuddling, giving foot rubs and back massages and such which makes YOU feel good.. makes me feel good. I aim to please and am pretty easy to please myself. I'm a simple pleasures man and really enjoy living and life and I try to take absolutely not the smallest detail for granted. Theres alot more about me. . . just ask. I'm pretty much an open book. but I do stress again that I will not be stepped on again, I've learned how to see and remove myself from a bad situation *don't confuse that with "Not forgiving and giving second chances".
I'm looking for: Ummm well, I've honestly never been real picky about looks, looks are shallow. I do appreciate physical beauty of course but it's not a strong point with me. One of the first things I notice about a woman is her laugh. If asked about "MY IDEAL" body type on a women I'll have to say petite but once again it's not a major issue. If you are, bonus, if you aren't you'll be loved/respected/treated no less. Personality is a must, smarts are a must * I dont mean college professor smart or rocket scientists * Laughter is big which I've already mentioned but even if you don't laugh now you will with me. If i can't make you laugh you have issues. You'd need to be into physical contact and not consider me "smothering". I'm a very physical person and crave contact even if its just shoulder to shoulder at a theatre or my legs against yours under the kitchen table. You'd have to believe in and enjoy family and children, I'm big into family and I love kids specially my nephews and nieces and friends kids, they all get pampered and spoiled by me. Music taste is your choice, Drinking or not is your choice *as long as its not a problem*, Religion is your choice just don't try to convert me, I'll respect your choices as well * I prefer Christian of course but... * gosh I dunno what all I prefer in a woman just be laughy and smiley and happy to be around loving people and I'm good to go.