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About me:

Thank you for taking the time to read this. I’m a WRITER. Please MOVE ON if you’re just here for sex. I tend to let my intellect rule my heart but it’s natural for Libra to be a thinker vs. emotional. But I’m also very open, expressive, honest and honorable. I am intelligent, attractive, sociable, outgoing, quiet, solitary, open-minded, a liberal idealist, talkative, empathetic, an animal lover, a loyal Libra, a homebody and a verbose writer. I’m from a doctor’s family so I still have a taste for finer things, but I can live without them too. I’ve learned to be frugal as an adult. I was married then widowed young, having one child, who is grown. I married a 2nd time and had 1 other LTR. I’ve had alot of occupations in life, but mostly I was a medical billing specialist for 20 years. 6 years ago I became a grandma and menopausal all at once. This slowed me down to a calmer lifestyle. 3 years ago I retired due to illness, so now I’m pursuing a passion for writing a book. I live alone with my cats, spending most of my day on the computer, writing or browsing. I don’t like to cook much. I like hanging out at the bookstore with a cup of java. I have 3 grandchildren and spend time with my daughter and family who live nearby. Gifted and genius IQs are common in my family so we’re all a little quirky. Being normal is overrated, so I’d rather be unique. I volunteer as a foster kitty parent for the humane society. I really enjoy solitary mental pursuits which is how I spend most of my time. I love rock concerts, movies, theater, eating out, culture, big festivals and bargain shopping. People usually notice I’m pleasant, talkative and TALL. I can be comfortable anywhere, be it a cookout or black-tie affair. Things I value highly are my thermostat at 73 degrees, sunshine, family, friends, cats, car, my eclectic belief system, my internet, a writer’s studio/cave, chocolate, free speech, genuine liberties, music, sleep, self-worth and the right to live retirement as I choose!

I'm looking for:

(Continued…) I prefer intellectual men who enjoy in-depth conversation. I want a man that’s SIMILAR to me with just enough differences that we strengthen each others weaknesses. I also need a secure man financially and emotionally, able to occupy himself. I can only support myself and writing takes time alone! I like CULTURAL things, fine arts, music, documentaries, novels, fairs, concerts, dancing, life’s mysteries, metaphysics, the paranormal, and news. I’d like a man who shares a few of those! I’m a true INFP and an old hippy. I love books, movies, most music except country and rap, and I love food, particularly Italian or sweets. I AM NOT A SPORTS FAN! I have an eclectic belief system which is VERY important to me, which I want TO SHARE WITH SOMEONE. I’m Christian based, but incorporate science, New age concepts, reincarnation and far eastern philosophy into it. I find no contradictions in them, and follow the readings of the psychic Edgar Cayce too. I USED TO do things like ride horses, water-ski, jet ski, scuba dive, camp, fish, go boating, travel and swim, but those things aren’t fun alone, and some are expensive. I like the country, but prefer the suburbs and city where there is more to do. I think being macho is overrated. I find intelligence and conversation MUCH more romantic and appealing. Message me if you have SOME, NOT ALL of these attributes: you’re altruistic, CALM, an intellectual, articulate, charismatic, love conversation, cats, can dance, like learning, love movies, are a night owl, like dinner out, love to read, are socially liberal, spiritual in a new age way and appreciate music and culture. It helps to love the water, warm weather, and also being indoors. Couch potatoes are welcome but please understand that everyone needs their own identity, autonomy and space. Message me if you posted a picture and you’re willing to WRITE openly with some detail or depth. Smart women can be intimidating, but I’m just an OVER-active thinker, that’s all.