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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

Virtually all Profiles from Women indicate that they are looking for Men that are HONEST! I hope that I can provide that HONESTY in a way that I still sound somewhat attractive.

Strong/Silent Type, Poet, Artist, Introspective, Proud yet Humble, Honest, Passionate, Muser, Thinker, a Man that PLANS everything and sticks to it. I owe nothing to anybody and am free & clear of physical encumberances & social obligations. Life events in past 2 years have made Me step back to reassess my life, where I am going & lately have found that I can't/don't want to do that alone. I journal daily, write about my thoughts, feelings, experiences, needs/wants & am brutally honest with myself. I write down my dreams & analyze them to better understand my Psyche, my Id, that part of me that is hidden yet makes me who I am. I use these Epiphanies as inspiration for some of my poetry. I hold people responsible for their actions & call them out, especially when they intrude their problems into my Life or others that I care about. I dislike conflict & avoid it whenever possible, but, if need be, I try to resolve it either by trying to reason with, listening & not interrupting, cueing emotions that are left on the burner but not expressed, or taking care of business as it happens. No reason to put off until later what can be rectified right then and there. I don't play mind games & won't put up with it from ANYONE. I am a Stoic Democrat. If you aren't, then don't reply. I refuse to argue about politics & religion. One we can't do anything about but Vote, the other is one's own personal connection with God, therefore not open for discussion in ANY Forum. I believe, & that's all there is for You to know. There is more to me than what I have described here, but those are the nuances that enrich My personality & therefore can not be expressed other than through personal contact & knowledge along with the initmate conversation that is inevitable.

I'm looking for:

I hope that My Honesty prevails here as well that I, again, in a way, still sound somewhat attractive. I am looking for a Partner, a Confidante, a Best Friend that is Honest, Caring, Compassionate, Passionate about what is Important, and Passionate in their Intimacy. She must be Understanding, Accepting, Non-Judgmental, definitely NOT AN EMASCULATOR, and most of all not looking to change someone to their own ideal person. I am not a piece of Clay for molding. I am who I am and I am not half-bad a person to know and be with. If you let me be Me, then we'll get along just fine. I am looking for someone that can kind of lead me into things, suggest activities with PLANNED Itineraries as I am a Planner and do not deal well with improvisation and impetuousness. No, I am not a fuddy-duddy. I just don't like to be put on the spot and have to decide right then and there without looking at all the congruities. If I DO NOT sound like someone you want to be with, please do not contact Me. It will save us a lot of time and disappointment. Again, and I reiterate Myself here, I am who I am . . . I'm not going to change who and how I am . . . This is Me and I think I'm still a pretty good Guy. I'm honest with everything I've stated here and have not misrepresented Myself. Hope to hear from You!