About me: Sex is not all that there is to a realtionship. Isn't that the truth? However, Am I the only gay man who puts stock in such qualities as devotion, honesty, truthfulness, openness, fidelity, loyalty and the myriad of other attributes that comprise a sound working realationship on an intimate level? I am not seeking "Mr. Right" or, even, "Mr. Right Now". What I am seeking is someone who is human and open to all the frailties and shortcomings of humanity as well as all the higher attributes that likewise we can aspire to. I am not into games and players or festishes like scat, watersports, leather, daddies, S&M, bondage or the other things. I am not into the body beautiful, the perfect physique, the self centered, the users, the abusers. I am not into those who think overlarge male members make them the "ideal" person. I am not into bars and one night stands. There is so much more available than a shallow existence of going from bed to bed, man to man, until one grows old and perishes. That is, after all, all our outcomes no matter who we are or what we possess, it will occur. I am a sexual person and enjoys sex with the right person and the right person would be defined not by their statements, but by their actions and deeds.
I'm looking for: I also enjoy hobbies that are wide and varied. I don't ask that someone shares all my interests. But, it would be nice when I am involved in paranormal investigation that the person I'm committed to is home.. alone not involved in some torrid, hidden backwater affair. I am an Ex-Jehovah's Witness and served as a Wiccan High Priest from 1988-1989. I follow now an eclectic bend of the Christo-Pagan and metaphysical. I believe in magick and ESP ability. I do not ask that someone shares my interests, but can be supportive as I can be supportive of their interests.The wooded glade and bubbling brook are a spiritual solace to me, hence I camp and walk, enjoying local parks and the Hocking Hills. Reading is a great pleasure as well as thrift shopping and antique shopping and going to the small unique shops that dot the Short North area.I don't care if someone is a bank president or a gas pump jokey, as long as they work honestly. To me that is a greater virtue than all the looks that will deteriorate over time with age. Overly large people and those whom are so infected with gay society that they feel they must don an affectatious effeminate action as well as the "pretty" people and the "macho" types do not attract me. I am looking for an average Joe who can actually read and communicate and express themselves honestly and openly. Who has enough security about themselves to be open both to themselves as to who they and to potential partners. Like any other human, I desire someone who will relate to me and with me as I can them. Someone who will be there as a friend and a lover. Someone to share my joys and heartaches and sadnesses with as I will with them theirs. Is this not after all what a realtionship is all about? Sex, then, becomes but only one facet of a multifacted thing beautiful and wondrous in scope. Who will reach out their hand to mine and join me on this wondrous journey we call life?