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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

I’m an independent woman who is willing to crack open her life and her spirit for the right man… a nice addition to a satisfying existence. You don’t need to complete me – I’m already a full set. Intelligent, confident, enthusiastic about life, educated, drama-free and genuinely happy. It doesn’t take much to please me… I’m flexible and always full of new ideas to explore. Searching for old books from my childhood, cruising thrift stores and antique shops, listening to live music, writing short stories and screenplays, hitting the karaoke dives, sampling exotic cuisine… these are just a few of the things I like. I also like myself. There… I said it. Do you have passion? Are you a man who takes care of business – paying the bills, going to work and all that jazz? Do you have a wicked sense of humor? These are qualities that are very important to me. Honesty is also a must – nobody likes a liar. But honesty is often more effective when wielded like a feather duster and not an aluminum bat… tactfulness and kindness can get you pretty far, no matter the situation. Same goes for a positive attitude. Overall, I consider myself a cheerful person… we all have our bad days and moods, but I do not want someone who is chronically negative. I would never dream of expecting qualities in you that I don’t already bring to the table.

Are you an unattached white male, 30-45? Do you live in the Oklahoma City area – if I looked up your street in the metro phone book, would I find it? Do you stay away from all illegal substances? Are you relatively healthy and disease-free (sorry, I have to ask)? I sure hope so. These simple things are very important to me. If you like what you’ve read about me so far, let’s get to know each other and see if we click. You never know unless you try.

I'm looking for:

The people I like to meet and spend time with are easy-going but also willing to "take care of business"... pay your bills on time, go to work, take care of yourself. It sounds like such a simple little thing, but it's actually kind of rare to find someone who is independent and mature. I'm also very attracted to someone with a Seinfeld-ish sense of humor, someone who can see that life can be both absurd and hilarious at times. Aside from these things, I will admit that my tastes in men are a bit outside "the norm". For example, I am not particularly interested in exciting, adventurous thrill-seekers. I'm not a skydive-naked-and-make-Thai-cuisine-at-the-same-time kind of woman. The kind of man I'm looking for would consider "adventure" to mean using the keyboard instead of the mouse while playing EverQuest. Now comes the hard part: pinning down "absolutes". If you have made it this far in my ad... congratulations! This turned out to be much longer than I had planned. I am looking for a drug-free single white male between the ages of 30 and 45 in the Oklahoma City area. Please don't think I'm being rude or snotty when I say this, but these are absolutes. I have tried dating men of all ages and now know that I want someone close to my age. Other than these factors, I am open to meeting people of all backgrounds... so let's get this thing started!