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About me and who I'm looking for

About me:

My friends would say that I add spice to the party. I'm upbeat, easy going, nonjudgmental, have a good sense of humor, and some pretty good common sense. I respect the people I meet for who they are, and try make the best of our encounters.
- DWM, no rings or strings.
- Professional, middle class. - Not a cheapskate, but neither an open wallet. - Healthy lifestyle. 5'6" Brn hair/eyes
- 200+, but actively working on dropping the poundage. - Good variety of interests and music. Not much on sports or outdoorsmanship though. - Good sense of humor. - No hostile or aggressive tendencies. - Self-confident, perfectly happy being alone or with friends.
- Independent (think: your cat) not looking for friends to complete me.
- Honest, thoughtful, sincere, trustworthy, blah-blah-blah, but not gay. - Positive approach to life.
- Doesn't dwell on the past.. lives in the present.
- Social drinker, very light smoker. No tats, twitches or tumors. - I do have some strong opinions, but you wouldn't know it unless you pressed me. - Compassionate and emotional accessible, but not with just anyone.

I'm looking for:

- Fun, frolic, frivolity, and possibly more. Going out on the town or the toolies and enjoying time. - Someone interested in a little romance, a date partner, for dinners, movies, kissing, sheetdancing (hopefully!). - I like different nationalities; the less-white, the better!
- Early intimacy, shallow hookup, f-buddy, etc., but you don't have to be that. - Not looking for an exclusive relationship... although that could change. - NOT ready for family stuff... I love kids, maybe even yours, but don't want to be their father figure. - Please don't be a bummer (meaning pissy, self-centered, self-pitying, apologetic or self-righteous attitudes). I mean, I know you're not, but please don't turn into one later.